Questions: Society & Politics

Let's say your dating a girl who has a twin brother and one day you come over her house and you see her and her brother wearing pyjamas and cuddling together like this...

The brother wakes up, stares at you smiles and says ohh good morning then falls back to sleep.

What would you do? Let's say they're both 18.

I've heard a lot of people say that committing suicide is a selfish act, because you're passing on the pain to others. However, in my opinion, I don't think so. Actually, I feel like it's the other way around. People expect you to just keep moving on, no matter how shitty life is. They tell you that life would get better, even though it may be getting evidently worse. They say you should keep living for your family and friends. Who cares about how you feel? They'll just medicate you and send you to get hours of therapy, just to convince you to keep living. The only time suicide seems alright is if you have a terminal illness. You didn't have an option to be born, and apparently, people look down on you for wanting to have an option to die.

After people pointed out in my other question that they would not leave their partner after a bad accident that left them paralyzed, I decided to make this one to see what your thoughts are.

So, again, I read someone's story in a YouTube comment on a video I was watching, which left me empathetic for the woman involved. She was left paralyzed from the waist down after a head on collision with a drunk driver. After the incident, her world was turned upside down. She lost her boyfriend, her friends, her job, everything.

So, if something as horrific as this left your hypothetical partner paralyzed in some way, would you stay? Why or why not?

I just read the most heartbreaking story. A woman was hit by a drunk driver, which made her paralyzed from the waist down. After the incident, her whole world turned upside down. She lost all of her friends, her boyfriend, and her life. But she was determined not to let this defeat her. She's speaking with a therapist and going through treatment, but this incident has ruined her whole life. I feel the upmost empathy for her.

So this had me thinking... Would you date a quadriplegic? If they were attractive, and had the personality you desired, but they were in a wheelchair and paralyzed, would you at least give them a chance? I want to know. :)

Like, she has a job and makes enough to live on, but she's satisfied with that and doesn't really care if she's SUPER successful (career wise)?