I don't need her to be career-driven, but I need her to contribute at a reasonably close level as I am to the relationship. That doesn't have to be financially per se - maybe she's more domestic, or maybe she helps with style, or maybe she has social contacts. Whatever, as long as she is happy and able to play a strong part in the relationship, I don't care all that much what she does for a living or how driven she is to excel in that field.
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I in large part agree with my esteemed comember @MrOracle. I want her to be a full and equal partner in the real life elements of the relationship. I would like her to have a little ambition so her life moves forward with an upward trajectory but I don't need a gal that wants to be president or President.
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If she has a good income, and is healthy, has her own opinion/ is independent. And knows what she wants. That's more then enough. She doesn't need the best job in the world. If she has a job and can control her life. Thats enough already. Most people in this world struggle with that alone.
Protip: Men and women have different priorities as well as attraction cues in life.
This means, just because women seek for career-driven men, men do not do the same. So no, most men do not care. That doesn't mean you should be a lazy bum though.I don't care, as long as she can afford her life.
But if she will expect me to contribute more money than she herself can, then we will have a problem.I don`t know if it sounds greedy but i PREFER the girl who is not career driven cuz she will give me more time and care.
Prefer it. I have no interest in dating a career woman.
Keeping in consideration that "enough to live on" is kinda vague and still a pretty sizable amount these days, I'd be perfectly fine with that.
I'm much more interested in personal and emotional growth than growth in her career.
I do care that she at least works. Love doesn't pay the bills and I am not working for both of us.
I would rather her be happy in her career than wealthy.
I like to encourage anyone to be the best they can be but at the end of the day if you are happy that's what matters!
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