Do you find it rude when someone you’re having a conversation with online leaves suddenly without telling you goodbye?

[Still-alive]

Like you and this person are really have a nice conversation online and then suddenly they vanish without saying bye to you. Do you find this rude?

Yeah thats rude to me

As long as it isn't a habit im ok with this a couple times. As long as i get an explanation later

No i dont find this rude

I do this all the time. Idc. 🤷‍♂️

[Little_Bumblebee]

If they don't get back to me in some hours or the day after, maybe a few days, depending on the relationship and circumstances, then that would bother me.

But I often have conversations through the day or during a week, where real life gets in the way or stuff like that, and you answer the next day if you fell asleep. Or after you went to the gym. When you're free from work or something else.
I do like those kinds of conversations in a way, it keeps it going and it's not just iver after half an hour.
Also, I do a lot of hobbies and other stuff and might get easily distracted myself. So to me that can happen.

I've learned to not just sit and wait for a reply, but do my stuff in between.

[CrazyGirl2]

It depends, if it’s just a comment someone made and I replied to it, I don’t care what they do. But if we’re actually having a conversation and they just exit the conversation without so much as a simple “GTG goodbye” or even a “Shit! Something came up, sorry I have to go!” Then yes, it’s very rude, and there is NO excuse for just leaving a conversation unless your internet went down! They’re ignoring the person they were talking to, it shows a complete lack of manners, and betrays their true personality! The ONLY excuse for ever doing something like that is “sorry my internet went down!” Seriously, it’s extremely rude!

[llorando]

Depends on why they suddenly left, if they just simply left cause they didn't want to talk anymore, then that's rude, but if they left suddenly cause they lost internet connection, then I'd completely understand.

[bowenw]

If I'm having a conversation with someone and we are replying quickly to each other it can be annoying if they suddenly. I'd prefer they tell me they have to leave.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Rosexøxø]

I used to feel bothered. Unfortunately I have found other things that bother me more than that kind of action.

I understand some people get caught up unexpectedly and other times it is a nice switch to not have to say bye and hello and just talk whenever both can, unless it were an emergency I suppose.

I used to hate this, but then I fell into picking up the behavior.

It’s a tricky situation.

[Rosexøxø]

Voted B

[Sour-rose]

Not really. Sometimes I just don't have anything else to say, aaand as long I'm not creeped out by said person, just talk to me another time. However, just recently a guy tried to test my asexuality... after must not getting said vibe of asexuality...

"Au revoir."

[DarkCarousel]

No— I understand that life happens and things come up. Sometimes people pick up conversations hours later, it’s no big deal.

[Still-alive]

Have you done this often? Jc

[petitedollbabee]

Aslong as there’s an explanation after then I don’t mind. Sometimes you have to go and don’t have time to say goodbye and then forget to message back later. But aslong as they let me know why they had to go the next time we speak, it’s algood.

[menina]

As long as it's not a habit, it doesn't bother me.

[Cuminginside]

It's becoming a habit after a half an hour you kind of have to hang it up.

[Apulu_Imback]

I don't mind this as long as they explain their absence later on. I do this myself.

[SnowedIn]

Nah. That's online. If it were in person, sure. Online, no.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yeah, it is, unless they literally had no time to say goodbye for an actual reason.

[Wiredone]

It really does bother me. I don't mind it once in a while but every time we talk. I understand sometimes people have an emergency and they have to leave suddenly but really.

[Guardian45]

Nothing pisses me off faster than someone who does that!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, that's rude to me

[annabananna]

Doesn’t bother me at all

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Not rude, just more like “….. okay fine”

[Pink2000]

Not at all.

[lottiebannotie]

It is rude but why does it happen?