Why would I forgive cyber bullies?

[Louis-Deger]

Insulting people online is not cool. I’m a victim of cyberbullying, I’m traumatized. Being told insults online has had a negative impact on me. Wish I could live life without being bullied online. Being told insults online stresses me out so bad, SOMETHING BULLIES WOULDN’T UNDERSTAND!!! It seems like I report cyberbullying to the website owners and they don’t kick the assholes off the site! I wish cyberbullying would be illegal, it does more harm than good, wait no, I meant it only does harm, there’s nothing good about cyberbullying! When people have cyber bullied me, I retaliate them by telling them they’re a child of Satan and to go to hell, because cyber bullies are only bad, there’s nothing good about them, and I know darn well for a fact it’s true. Seriously, why would I forgive cyber bullies? That means I’m putting up with the shit they’ve told me and accepting the shit they’ve told me, well I refuse too! Forgiving cyber bullying means that cyberbullying is acceptable. Cyberbullying is accused, harmful and unacceptable, why would I forgive that? I REFUSE TO FORGIVE PEOPLE WHO HAVE CYBER BULLIED ME, BECAUSE THAT MEANS I’M ACCEPTING THE SHIT THEY’VE SAID TO ME AND PUTTING UP WITH IT, AND I WON’T ACCEPT THAT!!!

[TommyMountainFigure]

In future, when they insult you.. doesn't matter what they say... Respond with..

"Welcome to my bin, with all the other low life scum... bye bye loser :)"

Don't even waste your time reading it past when you know they are insulting you. Never engage with them.. Ignoring works wonders.. trust me.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't know if the places you are being cyber bullied on have an auto message when you ignore them.. If so.. copy that word for word.. even the smiley face.

[northerngal]

Forgive? Maybe not... but forget definitely. If you continue to fume about this stuff you only end up hurting yourself. Let it go... forget about the haters. Hell your enemies say a lot about who you are. If it continues to negatively effect you they win. I am a firm believer that karma will deal with them. My experience has generally proved that. The universe likes balance. Oh and maybe stay off social media... it can be toxic anyways. You really will not miss it I bet.

[StarWarGirl]

What do you think what is solution? Does it help by not forgiving them or does it impact that person anyhow?

(I'm just trying to make you think over this and also want to learn things from your perspective)

[jshm2]

Why do you think your forgiveness matters?

Seems you deserved some of that "bullying" and brought it upon yourself,