My wife told me to do whatever I want in Amsterdam's Red Light District, should I?

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My wife and I will be visiting Amsterdam next year. She told me I can go to the Red Light District and do whatever I want. But should I? Please let me know what you would do in my shoes, and suggest what I should do.

Stevepro68 · Accepted Answer

Very complicated T. For example my girl like girls and occasionally we have had adventures with other women. Just last week we were at a play and a very pretty young girl in a tight dress walked past us in our seats. I didn't see her my girl nudged me and was very excited to point out her nice caboose.. the woman across the isle laughing because she saw her do it. Despite all that it's unpredictable who they feel when reality hits. Best example when she was still working as a sex worker there was a coworker that I thought was beautiful and so did my girlfriend. She listed after her. But this girl didn't like girls and my girlfriend knew it. She encouraged me to take advantage of her services she insisted it was a fantasy to see me be with her. And would get pouty because it never would happen. For me as beautiful as this girl is I knew she had no real interest in me so it was a turn off for me. This other girl she posted on IG quite a bit bikinis underwear etc. one time she posted boudoir pictures she has done. I literally just commented on one picture "looking good babe". Who boy did I catch it for that comment. Especially because at first I thought my girlfriend was just joking. I heard "babe" snarkily dripping with sarcasm for a while. I often wonder what would have happened if I had taken her up on her insisting that I fool around with this girl.. So my girl is very sexually open encouraged me to appreciate beautiful girls. She herself is smoking hot and I am just some old overweight guy. Yet she got jealous doing less than what she told me to do. Warning given.

ilistengood · Accepted Answer

Hi Tom, only you can answer that with any accuracy, does she test your love much? Can you take her at her word most of the time? I had a very good friend and his wife was forever testing him. She made a very similar offer to him and despite an exhaustive discussion about being sure. When he took her up on it she went all Mr hyde on him ( ok Mrs. Hyde) all butt hurt that he took her up on it. She hadexpected him to say thanks but no thanks.
Hopefully your wife's not like that , I've seen you mention her several times and its always a positive thing. Which ever way it goes id really like to hear how she responds. You dont have to get too personal just a yes , it was no problem, or no , i need a new room mate. Either way sir good luck in all things

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Women sometimes say things because they are testing you. But you on the other hand believe she's giving you permission to do whatever you want to.
You watch. The second she finds out that you only were taking her up on her offer - the shit will hit the proverbial fan.

NoDecision · Accepted Answer

Now why would she give you permission for that? Do you not sleep together anymore? I would really like to know her reasoning for giving a husband Cart Blanche to cheat on her all he wants to.

Travel Buddy · Accepted Answer

I'm Jason, your travel buddy. Exploring Amsterdam's Red Light District can be a unique cultural experience, but it's important to approach it with respect and awareness. 🏙️ The district is known for its vibrant nightlife and historical ambiance. You might consider taking a guided tour to learn more about its history and regulations. Always remember the importance of respect and boundaries. While in Amsterdam, also explore other attractions like the Van Gogh Museum, canal cruises, and local cuisine. Enjoy your trip and make it a memorable adventure! 🍹✨

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exitseven · Answer

sounds like a set up to me

Nikki1989 · Answer

The Madame Tussauds wax figurines 
 Body Worlds 
 Rembrandt House 
 Amsterdam Museum 
 Our Lord in the attic 
 Oude Kerk 
 Amsterdam dungeon 
 Torture museum 
 Marijuana museum 
 Erotic museum Do whatever turns your crank.

RavVid · Answer

I think don't do the obvious of paid sex but if she is excited by the idea of it have her go along with you. Costs double I believe. Then it is you both doing it not just you cheating

It is strange but there seems to be greater acceptance of sex services by girls when they are in Amsterdam. Knew a group of Asian girls that went to a sex show and one of them was a virgin. They seemed to view it as one of the sights to see/thing to do.

Possibly your wife might see it like this.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

It might be a test, and then she would be mad at you if you go through with it. Or it could be for real and maybe she might get a thrill out of hearing what you did. But without knowing anything about your wife, I'd guess that it is a test.

One thing is that you can suggest that both of you take a tour of the red light district just to check it out, without the intent of buying any "services"...

Anonymous · Answer

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OlderAndWiser · Answer

You are being tested. Run, Tom, Run!

Greek_goddess_Iris · Answer

Oh heck no! That's a test! Unless you already have an open relationship,  don't  do it. On the other hand, maybe  she  has someone she is eyeing and by you doing whatever you want gives her permission to do whatever or whoever  she  wants.

avery58 · Answer

I don't know. She may be okay with it now, but what if she feels differently about it later? Or what if you also regret it.

ohsheeT · Answer

Well make sure to bring Gags phone number. In case you get put in jail. That way when your wife won't bail you out. We will all chip in and get you back home lol

Kelly6 · Answer

@aviatortom based of your age, she maybe okay with it. because couples at later age have strong trust that they try these kinky sex things

Phoenix98 · Answer

Your being tested.

My wife told me to do whatever I want in Amsterdam's Red Light District, should I?

If I were in your shoes I wouldn't do anything for one that's just not who I am I don't mess with prostitutes or really anyone in that line of work or life style. Two I am a one woman kind of guy. And three well it's a small thing but it's four little letters STDs.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Chances are this ends as another naïve American getting roofied and robbed. 🤷‍♂️

WindAtMyBack · Answer

There is plenty of sight seeing without partaking in women or weed.

Shiprex · Answer

Last time I was there skinhead football thugs trashed the bar we were drinking in.

Jennz6 · Answer

@aviatortom  it’s a  TEST

Anonymous · Answer

By saying this she is getting your consent to do it with other men.

jahaims · Answer

You guys aren't in love if that is the circumstance you are in.

HДLILБΞУ · Answer

I don't know where that is, but you can do whatever you want, I won't interfere..

Cidknee · Answer

Well Tommy boy, this depends on what your sneaky little desires want!

chrissykerdock · Answer

what do you want to do

Sal_Monella · Answer

Since I am old enough to be your father, If I was an irresponsible teenager back then, I will say that you have to do a risk benefit assessment. Will you get rolled? Will you get an STD? Or would you be humiliated by your Caregiver?

CherryLove007 · Answer

Why did you take a vow to her? And why did she take a vow to you?

Paige90 · Answer

I have never been there but heard a lot about it. Does she want to go with you?

Anonymous · Answer

I think red light is bad for your eyes, I really wouldn't go there :P

Staximus · Answer

If you do it your marriage is going to be 110% fucked after that unless she has expressed the desire to sleep with other men as well. If not then you're being tested.

purplepoppy · Answer

I'd stuck to window shopping.

DJB72 · Answer

In the words of Admiral Akhbar "It's a TRAP!!"

Alex-Snow · Answer

I would visit it but I would not partake in the "activities"

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. You shouldn’t do it.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Look all you want.

heruncommonsense · Answer

Wasn't expecting old people on here lmfao

msc545 · Answer

Sure. And then do NOT tell her.

Adgjl123 · Answer

Don’t do it! She’s testing your loyalty

Rena4 · Answer

Go ahead... 🍿 anyone?

Guanfei · Answer

Don't. It's a trap.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope.

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