Do you have plans wth a partner for Valentine's Day?

[OlderAndWiser]

I know that some people say "Bah! Humbug!" on Valentine's Day, but I'm not one of those people. I can afford to take my girlfriend out to dinner and we will be double dating with my partner and his girlfriend. VD is on a Monday this year so we will be celebrating on Saturday with dinner at this restaurant that was built in 1873:

located in St. Augustine. And on Monday, when she thinks that the celebrating has concluded, she will get a delivery at my office:

I can afford to do it so why shouldn't I? And I know it will make her feel very special; she will probably be the only woman in the office who receives flowers on VD. Do you have anything planned with your sweetie?

I've never had a partner

I've had partners before, but not right now

I've got a partner now but I HATE Valentine's Day

I've got a partner now but I'm broke as a joke and got no money to do anything fun

Sending my partner flowers

Preparing dinner/going out to dinner

Something else I'll describe in the comments

[Anonymous]

Sure do. It just so happens that it was around Valentine's day, 14 years ago, that my girlfriend and I met. It was around that same time, two years later, that we moved in together - and lived happily ever after.

My girlfriend - and the three little gifts she gave me who call me Daddy - is the center of my universe and I don't even want to think of my life without her. (We, somewhat to our own surprise as we are actually otherwise rather traditional, were turned off by the idea of being married.) So we make Valentine's Day special.

Typically, for the family part, we have a dinner with the kids, putting a card at each of their place settings with a box of candy or a plush toy. I get my girlfriend flowers and a card and she - in what has become something of a half-joke/half-tradition - gets me a card and sexy underwear.

Then the next day we take the kids to Bumpa and Munga's (Grandma and Grandpa's) house for a long weekend. Then we go for a long weekend - (Friday, Sat. Sun. Monday) - either to the Hotel Washington (we live in the northern Virginia suburbs of Washington DC) or to a little B&B we found on the Chesapeake Bay and spend the whole weekend. (This year it is the Chesapeake.)

If we do DC, it is a play at the Kennedy Center, candlelit dinners with me in coat and tie and girlfriend in a beautiful dress, breakfasts in bed, dancing and - oh yeah - plenty of cuddling and sex. If the Chesapeake, it is walks around the little town - St. Michael's - and on the bay and maybe drives to other little towns. Little antique shops - girlfriend is a collector and likes interior decoration as a hobby. It is a little more informal, but candlelit dinners and - oh yeah - lots of sex.

This year it is off to the Chesapeake. "Bumpa" and "Munga" (my gfd's parents, a. k. a Grandpa and Grandma) will pick the kids up tomorrow morning. Then my girlfriend and I will be off to the Bay - back on Monday night. Just the two of us. Little shops for my girlfriend and I to peruse hand in hand and - if the weather holds - walks by the water and tours of quaint little towns. Oh, and yes, romantic dinners and lots of time in bed doing... well... you know.

It is always an incredible weekend and we are really looking forward to it. Though the funny part is that we invariably end up talking about the kids a lot of the time. It is funny - we look forward to the time away, but we love our children and sort of miss them. I am, especially, the most besotted milksop of a Daddy you will ever meet. I work in politics but my most prized job title is "Family Tickle Monster."

Any holiday is just a day unless you invest meaning in it. It has just become the fashion that Valentine's Day is out of fashion. Unless you have, as I am so lucky to have, someone who makes it fashionable by giving it meaning. For me, it will always mean the time when I met the woman who changed my life for the better - and when I wake up next to her and feel her warm skin against mine as she sleeps peacefully in my arms, I know what meaning Valentine's Day will have for me.

[lightbulb27]

dinner out. I sent her flowers recently to lift her up and really works.

I hope your honey is pleased, she's lucky woman.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thank you, sir. I hope you and your partner are doing well. Tell her I was swamped at work when she called today and I'll try to call her over the weekend.

[Xoxocutekitty]

That's so sweet! She's a very lucky lady 🙂.

We're going to the big city to for the V-weekend. If its not canceled, I'm bringing the boyfriend to a fet lounge (he has no idea!). Sunday is to recover with a walk in central park and maybe find the man a good steak.

[Desconhecida]

Why did you choose to have a double date for VD? The flowers idea is great.
I'm having my engagement party on February 14th. We planned to spend the day together too.

[OlderAndWiser]

I didn't know you were engaged. Congratulations!

My girlfriend moved here from her home for the past 20 years, and she knows almost no one except there people to whom I have introduced her. We are doubler dating with my partner/her employer, and we are just having dinner together. Afterwards, we can go our separate ways.

[Zygum]

@Desconhecida, Congratulations in advance, May you happy and joyful event

[Desconhecida]

Ah, I see! And yes, I am... tying the knot in November!

[Desconhecida]

@Zygum thank you!

[Zygum]

@Desconhecida, welcome

[Paris13]

I am LDR with My partner. We sent Each other Gifts. It's Also 3 Years We started our Relationshipbut May3 Got IN a Relationship. xxoo

[Massageman]

We'll probably get a dinner at Texas Roadhouse or Chili's.

[JustinTheGreat]

We both requested the day off but we don’t know what we’re doing yet. We don’t have too much money to go all out so we’ll probably end up staying at home, watching movies and getting take out

[Prettygurl12]

I'm married. We don't have any plans as of yet.

This will be our 4th V-Day as a married couple, but our 11th total. We certainly have the money to do something special but neither of us are really into that type of stuff.

We'll probably order slightly fancier take-out that night 😂

[19magic]

I really love the idea of doing homamde things, I'd be writing poems and sending him sweet little messages throughout the day telling him the many things I love about him and will try to send something that he'll love to the office.

As for me this year it's little ones birthday so got an activity and a meal booked on Sunday and will be decorating the room and doing the cake on the Monday for a little party at home.

[DonkeyDan]

I'll be preparing dinner for my "female friend" but I'm not getting caught up in the commercial endorsement of a dsy that has no significance, when everyday should be about showing your love and appreciation towards your partner.

[petitedollbabee]

My partner is working most of the day but when he gets off work during the evening we’ve planned to have dinner together and spend some time together. We’re both very introverted so going out and doing something isn’t really our style.

[cth96190]

Nothing will happen on Valentine’s Day. I will probably be working anyway.
The only females who share my bed are a cat and a dog.

[OlderAndWiser]

At least they are loyal animals!

[Alyssa_11]

I have never had a partner on Valentine’s Day before. It’s funny cause even with my ex we broke up for 2 weeks once and it coincided during Valentine’s Day.


I will be spending it with my friend though :)

[Dmony45]

Awe I'm sorry u have never had a partner on Valentine's day I'm the same way

[allie_lynn]

me and my boyfriend are going to his family's beach house on Friday and staying until Valentines Day and on our way home Monday were gunna go out to eat and maybe see a movie or something like that.

[Anonymous]

I am as single like a pole. Girls apparently do not love me for whatever reason. Too bad, they're missing out on very romantic love.
So that means I will spend valentines day watching premium videos on...

It's gonna be free for that day.

Or I could just hire a certain girl for the night so to speak.

[mike5150]

Because my mother in law is moving out of state my wife will be helping her while I work. First Valentine's since we meet we won't be together. But then again we never really made a big deal out of the holiday either.

[Rachelle_256]

i dont know yet, im recently not recently married ( 6 months ago) and pregnant so i dont know how ill feel on doing much

[Iron_Man]

I don’t have the success you have I’m alone as far as women go

[OlderAndWiser]

Your time will arrive!

[Iron_Man]

You’re more aggressive than me you get after it

[WhiteBoyChill]

You look like a decent guy tho so I’m actually kinda confused

[Iron_Man]

@WhiteBoyChill i’m shy in real life when it comes to Pursuing women

[Iron_Man]

Thanks older and wiser

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well you’ve had girlfriends before right?

[Iron_Man]

@WhiteBoyChill Yes of course

[Iron_Man]

But only one long-term relationship and that was a very long time ago

[WhiteBoyChill]

So what changed? If you succeeded once doesn’t that give you confidence going forward?

[Iron_Man]

@WhiteBoyChill I have problems we had a dispute over my childhood home with my sister and it’s a very long story but I guess I was burned after my last relationship

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m not trying to hate on you. But just trying to understand the situation.

Because I haven’t even had a single girlfriend yet (unless you count a couple from online)

[WhiteBoyChill]

*A couple I’ve had*

[Iron_Man]

@WhiteBoyChill never thought you were hitting on me no problem. That’s probably because of shyness most women like to be pursued

[Iron_Man]

Sorry voice command error never thought you were hating on me

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yes. That is correct. Its very rare for women to make the move.

But at the same time though, there’s never any harm in trying to get to know somebody, and inviting them to do something simple.

[Iron_Man]

@WhiteBoyChill Right

[WhiteBoyChill]

Worst they can say is no. But I understand if maybe the time to start dating doesn’t feel right.

[Iron_Man]

@WhiteBoyChill cOVID-19 I don’t like it and I just got over it recently I don’t wanna go out there and start getting sick once again

[AddictedGirl]

I have a partner and we both are in same city but we have our final exams going on 😭😭😭 (short sad story)

[bookish_bengali]

No solid plans
If I feel energetic we may go out

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Lol I almost had drama on valentines day this year lmao. Dodged a bullet.

[joshctlee]

Wow.. so many single people. Just goes to show how challenging relationships are these days 😞

[OlderAndWiser]

I think it shows that this site attracts many people who are awkward and inept at relationships.

[Bluemax]

Alas I will spend Valentine's Day missing her terribly.

I might go flying. I dunno.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t have plans. I’m single. But St Augustine is a nice city

[WhiteBoyChill]

What I’m trying to say is, that’s a very clever idea and it’s a perfect option for a date.

But I’d suggest just an evening stroll down the old street as well. It’s really nice

[OlderAndWiser]

Oh, yes, if the weather is good, we'll stroll down St. George Street after dinner.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Sounds great!

[joshctlee]

I literally just got back from saint augustine!

[Dmony45]

Yeah I have huge plans for my partner and that is to bring her bouquet of pink rose's and small surprise box with the words marry me if I ever find witch I hope I did

[Anonymous]

So far i dont have plans , but im sure my husband and i will just be ordering out and relaxing at home , im not ready or comfortable leaving my baby yet ,

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I never had a chance to send flowers to a girl for Valentines Day but would love to

[TommyMountainFigure]

I booked for us to go on holiday (as well as flowers and a large teddy bear being sent to our room on the day) I already contacted where she works and arranged it. She knows nothing about it. I will tell her the day before so she has time to pack!

[AdithyaR]

By partner, if you mean video games or college assignments then yep.

[Zygum]

I want to send Valantine day greetings cards to GirlsaskGuys users but I don't have their email addresses,

[Minahh]

He's currently sick so I hope he gets better by the time Valentine's come

[Mango77]

Single this year so no plans gonna just get my nails done

[Heartache0405]

Nothing. Because relationships are bullshit. I’ll be staying home taking advantage of a shit holiday by eating the candy and sweets it provides

[jimmy2]

Finally i found a beautiful woman i will ho to next week.

[douride2]

No partner at the moment so nothing is happening.

[OlderAndWiser]

I expect that to be a very temporary state of affairs!

[douride2]

Maybe maybe not?

[Blonde401]

Single Pringle, I always miss valentines day

[Cowboy6666]

how can a beauty like you still be single :)

[Citizenkirk]

No, I'm visiting with my Mom.

[Twalli]

I usually get flowers delivered to her work. My only concern this year is that she may not be needed that day.

[TrueConfection]

We're going out to dinner on Monday.

[alice55]

I have plans but alone plans cause I'm single

[boobliker]

i will do something like take her out to supper? after sunset

[fonduegirl]

I'd be buying me some candies

[IveGotNoName]

We dont do valentines

[annabananna]

Ohhh yea we going to the spa baby!

[Likes2drive]

Still single at the moment unfortunately

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah man. Relationships do take time

[Likes2drive]

@WhiteBoyChill Yeah it’s hard finding one

[moonpie89]

No. We are not doing anything

[TrillXHippy]

No plans on that day for 26 years now

[Daniela1982]

No partner. I suck!!

[JohnQue74]

Just dinner and a sleepover🍆🥰🥰

[Nilima1995]

Preparing dinner for him which he loves the most.

[KarimScreamy]

Nope I don’t even celebrate it.

[Phoenix98]

No partner and no plans.

[Cringe]

@nagahime and i are going on a romantic date

[Nagahime]

Liar

[Cringe]

Oh right, I forgot... we're going to ikea

[Nagahime]

No you're going to the Arby's dumpster and I'm going to the zoo

[Cringe]

at least I'll finally get some meat

[Anonymous]

I’m single right now so no

[Joker_]

Probably just gonna chill with @Cringe

[Cringe]

Haha please don't

[Joker_]

Lol you'd be lucky if I spent my Valentine's Day with you instead of my girlfriend

[Cringe]

Your girlfriend Is also your sister

[Cringe]

Which just so happens to be my sister

[Joker_]

I don't have a girlfriend lol

[Cringe]

I'm your girlfriend

[Joker_]

So true

[Cringe]

Kekw

[Sabretooth]

brood like always.

[Truthatanycost]

Valentines day is for simps.

[OlderAndWiser]

Putting down Valentine's Day is for guys who can't get a girlfriend.

[cadyyyyyy]

Oops! just got out of hell.