I'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, I knew back in grammar school, but didn't actually know her, just knew who she was, I hadn't seen her since 6th grade. I saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talking. For the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebook comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number without me even asking for it. So we go get ice cream, then she says why don't we watch a movie? So we go back to my house, I try to make a move on her and she backs off. I didn't act mad or anything. However, ever since that day, she hast Imed me or called or texted me ONCE. AND every time I try to talk to her now she just says she has to go right away or just doesn't answer, so I texted her and apologized for making a move on her because it made her feel uncomfortable and she said no problem, and that as soon as things at home settle down for her (her grandma was really sick and went to the hospital) she wanted to hang out again. SO I saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. We hadn't talked in about 2 weeks, cause like I said she hadn't contacted me since we hung out. As soon as she saw me at the gym she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if I wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever I was going at the gym. And even asked me to go to a & p with her lol. But ever since then she hasn't contacted me once. And like the whole time at the gym, I could tell something was on her mind, but I didn't know what, she was acting so shy, but yet she still wanted me to be with her at the gym? Idk, and also, it seems weird to me that she would have nooo interest me whatsoever after all this shit she is pulling, her just wanting to be my friend would surprised me greatly. I'm just confused cause she sending mixed signals
From your story it seems to me that she is the one who is always contacting you and telling what you guys should do etc, perhaps she got tired of being the one in charge all the time and would like to see you taking some initiative for a change? Try to show some initiative, ask her out etc and see how it goes is my advice.
She is simply shy, and has to get to know you more, she will build up confidence and start talking to you probably. Don' t get annoyed she is trying her hardest and just doesn't know how to show it. I know a lot of girls like that just walk and talk and talk some more. Don't be impatient you mite have a real fine girl in your hands
The first part sounded like she wanted something more (Ice-cream etc) but that maybe she was a little worried about how fast things were going. Maybe after that she just thought that perhaps it was a little better that you remain friends. At the gym the second time, that's all it sounded like, or at the most, a training partner.
It seems that you're sending her only one signal - you're wanting to be in a relationship and nothing less. What you're missing out on is a friendship. Perhaps you need to allow that to happen. You don't sound like you truly care for her in the way that you ended the question. Try to think how she might feel if she knew that you felt she was putting you through the s**t. Do you think she'd want anything further to do with you? I doubt it.
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