I think yes girls will push guys away to see if he will come back, to see if he really cares, but I think it is more instinctual than strategically planned. if you know what I mean. It almost like they expect him to come back, but want to make sure he knows that they aren't that easy to win over.
1) Yes 2) Yes 3) Yes. But I would also take into consideration the situation. Because I had a friend who had a guy split up with his girlfriend just so he could be with my friend. She pushed him away to see if he was serious but he kept coming back. In the end it turned out that he hadn't split up with his girlfriend and only kept coming back to my friend so he could have "the best of both worlds. " I think girls who do that have to be really cautious about what it actually mean. But I have personally done it before myself.
Personally, I push away guys to see what they will do!. I think by doing that we'll see if you really are interested (doesn't work all the time)
But you need to know if that's the reason for her pushing you away probably she wants some space or just not into you && don't know how to tell you face to face.
But if you have a prob. The best way is to ask her y she's pushing you away!
1. Yes 2. Yes 3. Yes, but I think its all in the way you come back, you have to be careful, because if done wrong she will lose respect for you and think your a push over and I think deep down inside no woman wants a push over.
So what do you think is a good way about coming back? I was a push over in my first relationship. I know better now. But I also don't want to turn into a stubborn jackass. - 6 months ago
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YES . So you guys out there better watch out . We're smarter than you think :p
Ok so this girl I was dating wouldn't tell me her feelings . So then I told her that I was confused and didn't know what we were anymore . I told her if she couldn't give me trust, honesty and commitment I couldn't be in an exclusive relationship with her . She said "regardless of my feelings for you I can't be with you" we didn't talk for a week then I went over and she acted extremely distant didn't want to sit next to me . She told me "I think you need to date other people" - 6 months ago
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I said "I was ready for this" I even teared up a bit . I got up to leave and she followed me to the door . She told me to call her if I need anything . Then she opened her arms up and gave me a hug . I told her to call me if she wanted to take her goddaughter to the park . And that was it . A week later it was easter . I texted her and everyone else in my phone "happy easter" she replied "thanks . You 2 . " What's the deal ? - 6 months ago
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The girl has seemed very distant lately which has made me more distant . I have tried to talk about it . She really won't express her true feelings . She makes it seem like it is very easy for her to turn and walk away from this . Although only a few weeks before she called me while I was out with my friends and told me she has really strong feelings for me . She was crying at the time because she believed I might be cheating on her . Because she had bad experiences in the past . - 6 months ago
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I think that your situation might be a little more extreme than just "testing" you to see if you'll come back. But you never really know. Maybe she's going though a hard time and she really doesn't want anyone to bother her for a while. Maybe she's depressed. Or just pms-ing. You never know. but still, if you really have feelings for her then try to slowly ease back into things with her ( because its always worth it) - 6 months ago
But how can a guy tell the difference between a girl that really doesn't want him and a girl that is just pushing him on way to see if he comes back ? - 6 months ago
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Well, if you want her back you have to fight her and prove to her that you want her back-and if she doesn't take you back-that's when you know she doesn't want you . But the sad thing is that people change their minds(ALL THE TIME) - 6 months ago
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Some girls do, some girls don't . Maybe she needs to reassure herself that he will not leave her; get over her insecurities about him just walking out of her life . Some view guys that stand by them all the time someone that loves them, someone that won't leave them . Others don't have this problem, it really depends on the girl .
It goes back to the cat and mouse game hun lol . Maybe women get tired of being the cat and in turn let the mouse go, so that they can become the mouse . Maybe they want to be reminded that they're still wanted and worthy enough to pursuit . Now from my personal experience, I've never pushed a guy away unless there were serious reasons to do so . I'd never push a guy away just to play a silly game like that, just for the simple fact that he may not come back . But all women are complicated in their own ways and have their own reasons for doing the things they do .
Oh and BTW most women view a guy that always comes back as a door mat . She can walk all over him in any type of shoe after stepping in dog crap and he'll be there until she moves him . - 6 months ago
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Well that's the problem I guess . A guy doesn't want to be treated like a door mat . So what happens when the girl pushes away the guy and the guy doesn't continue to chase ? - 6 months ago
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Then the girl is S . O . L and will hopefully learn to not play games with people's hearts and grow up a bit - 6 months ago
YES . That is always possible . A girl can sometimes tend to be insecure and needed an assurance that you will get her back, by then, she would be sure that the relationship is secure .
A girl will sometimes push a guy a way because she want to see how serious you are about the relationship . if she pushes away it could be that something is going on and she doesn't want to talk bout and needs space . also she could be pushing you away and doesn't even know it . talk to her and see if anything is going on .
Women most certainly do push guys away, but it also depends on the type of guy she's seeing. If he doesn't have a scarcity mentality most men seem to have, and the woman in question knows he has other options, the last thing she'll want to do is free up his Friday time slot for some other woman to fill.
My advice to any woman that tests their man by playing these game is that if he lands another lady you only have yourself to blame. I forget the exact wording, but there is a rule of relationships that says never test people because nobody is perfect and you'll ultimately get let down.
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