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Should I add her on Facebook?

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LostHelp (Age:18 to 24)     When: 13 days ago
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there's this girl I like and I think she might like me too because whenever we're at work, it feels like when we're talking I'm not even saying anything and she just laughs at me. Anyways she just drives me crazy, and she told me she was on Facebook so I don't know if I should add her or wait till she adds me. And what should I say to her, because the only time we ever talk its at work.


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Anonymous User      When: 2 days ago
Add her. Facebook is no big deal now. Just make sure that you don't mind what she will see of yours Facebook page. Example - if you have 50 pictures of yourself with all sorts of seductive women or you look like a player on your page - then you may turn her off really quickly!
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Tamantha
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Tamantha      When: 2 days ago
Yeah and add me to
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geanuine
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geanuine      When: 4 days ago
Ya I think she probably likes you. You should keep it casual for now and just add her. Say something like..."I found you." That's it. Short and sweet and see what she says from there.
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berlinium
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berlinium      When: 9 days ago
If she told you she has a Facebook, she wants you to add her. It sounds like she's subtly flirting with you.

You don't have to say anything to her on Facebook right away. In fact, it might even be good to wait a bit before sending her a message. But commenting on her status is always easy and nice.

Otherwise, what do you talk to her about at work? Simple small talk, conversation will work just fine. It does sound like she's interested so don't worry too much.
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lil_luv21
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lil_luv21      When: 9 days ago
She was hinting to you that you need to add her, without saying it. She wants to add you, but she wants you to take control.
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mallory_anne
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mallory_anne      When: 12 days ago
Well, this is just my opinion, but I think you should go for it.
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rdabby
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rdabby      When: 12 days ago
yes add her ofcourse! but why not ask her out anyway ? she clearly likes u
she told you she has Facebook which means: Add me!
then why not ask her out?
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ashley90
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ashley90      When: 12 days ago
Adding people on Facebook isn't really that big of a deal if you actually know each other. I mean, people who I've only met for a brief second add me. I don't think it matters and you're over thinking it a little. So yeah, add her! :)
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Dorby That's true, but if there is a person you want to connect with? I find it embarressing to add a person that doesn't know me. : / - 12 days ago
Answerer Yea, I agree. If it's someone you've never met or talked to I do think its a little awkward to add. But this guy has obviously talked to her before so it's not a big deal. - 11 days ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: 13 days ago
obviously there is some flirting going on between you too.
and if she "just so happened" to mention she has a Facebook,
that is a clear sign that she wants you to add her.
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clovergirl94
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clovergirl94      When: 13 days ago
It's really just Facebook. And you guys are co-workers/friends, so there's no reason not to. It's not a big deal, she probably won't think anything of you 'requesting' her first.
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Penguins4Ever
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Penguins4Ever      When: 13 days ago
It's just Facebook, you should add her if you haven't already.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 13 days ago
Yes, you should def. add her. People add almost everyone they know. So even if she doesn't like you in that way, It would still be apropriate.
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gialuan
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gialuan      When: 13 days ago
You should go ahead and add her. She told you she has a profile, so that seems like an invitation.
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Anonymous User      When: 13 days ago
add her
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MariahSch
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MariahSch      When: 13 days ago
u should add her...maybe if you do add her you both can chat online rather than only at work(it is a lot easyer 2 say things on line 2 rather than in person)...get 2 know each other better, maybe you can ask her out sometime when you find things going more smoothly=]
hope this helps some
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TexGal
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TexGal      When: 13 days ago
Oh, just add her! It's not a big deal and if she's a friend at work then she's a friend you should have on FB. It's nice to have those connections should you need to get in touch with her later on down the road.

If you're both single, you might as well start making some moves!
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Stanthemilkman
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Stanthemilkman      When: 9 days ago
Stop being a p**** its only Facebook its not like your asking her to marry you jeez.
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Nosperato
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Nosperato      When: 12 days ago
She *told* you she's on faecbook for a reason. And nowadays adding people on Facebook is no big deal at all. I've got girls adding me that I've never even talked to or just know by name.

And seriously, don't go thinking about every little move you make since you're worried you might ruin it. Just make a move. Go for it; you only live once. If you don't you might regret it later.
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medic123
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medic123      When: 12 days ago
dude just add her on Facebook...and go for it...ask her out or somethin...
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TheAristocrat0
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TheAristocrat0      When: 13 days ago
If she told you she's on Facebook then she wants you to add her... get to it man!
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bunny420
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bunny420      When: 13 days ago
She said she was on Facebook so you could add her, basically she invited you to do it.

Btw I love this line; "I think she might like me too because whenever we're at work, it feels like when we're talking I'm not even saying anything and she just laughs at me." lmao :)
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sonic241928
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sonic241928      When: 13 days ago
Her telling you that she was on Facebook was an open invitation to you to add her, so just go ahead and do that. Just talk about normal conversation topics that you do at work. If you like her, don't wait too much longer to ask her out--just ask her out in a casual way to do something fun with you.
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shyguy81
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shyguy81      When: 13 days ago
Or maybe you can tell her as well that you have a Facebook. Give her your link or w.e and if she adds you and starts talking to you then you know she's into you. then you can ask her out on a date then go on from there.
Best of Luck
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AtomizerJr
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AtomizerJr      When: 13 days ago
If you like her, to hell with Facebook. Ask her for a date.
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tex151 That's exactly what I would have done. - 13 days ago
 
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