I feel like there is something completely wrong with me because my guy friend just told me that I freak out over everything. I was completely surprised by this because I thought I was getting along great with him.
It all started when I would only text him every once and awhile since he no longer attends school, just to say 'hey what's up?' He would text me back and so I asked if we are still hanging out (he told me before school ended he wanted to see me again) and he says 'idk maybe later.' I took that as a never :\ but we were still friends. Two weeks after that I texted him and he was acting strange like he would say 'I want to cuddle' so I asked him 'why would you cuddle with someone you don't have feelings for?' He's says 'I never said I didn't.' So after a couple days past since then he texts me 'no more friends' I was like 'why?' He says 'your a cool person but you freak out to much.' I asked him 'like how?' He just says 'idk goodbye' :\. I told him that 'he was making a big mistake and that we would have a fun time hanging out' He tells me 'what would you do if you saw me in the shower alone?' I just say why would I be there?' he says 'we can't be friends.'
I didn't really get that so I gave him a little over a week to just think about things because I thought he had some type of feelings or something obvious I don't know w e. So that time finally came and I called him to ask him why exactly are we not friends? He says ' I don't know you freak out to much, I'll call you later' ( I know he won't) So now I'm starting to wonder if there is something wrong with me. It just bothers the crap out of me when someone says something bad about you that you don't really want to hear. I'm just so confused as to why things are the way with him? and if I actually do freak out? Please help <3
there isn't anything wrong with you. if he really thinks that you freak out a lot then you should leave him alone for a while. let him realize that it isn't true. he probably has a different reason for what he is doin. as for the shower comment.? I don't know what he meant by that.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 5 months ago
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