Yes we’re humans, we’re sexual creatures. I recognize that was a weird way to place it but it’s true. But girls! We all sense the feeling of being wanted when a guy feels us up and treats us like we’re the hottest things walking on this earth. We adore it when these boys have the craving to turn us on.
Knowing me, and yearning for the same feelings that each young woman wants. The feelings that we cannot get enough of, the natural and deepest desires of safe to state every woman’s hungers. Those values are to be beautiful, chosen, needed, adored, protected, irreplaceable, and valued. But do you really feel beautiful when a guy treats you like just a height and weight, regardless of the amount of times he actually treats you like a queen. But I’m referring to just the moments when he wants you “horny” or in bed. What about being chosen? Do you really feel chosen when a guy could treat any other girl like this; he just wants to get up your hole you know. He does not ADORE you he’s pleasuring HIMSELF. He’s not PROTECTING you having sex is not what’s best for you girls you deserve a guy that will embrace you when you’re broken hearted, he’s not protecting you when he’s trying to turn you on. I’m almost positive that you don’t feel irreplaceable when he’s doing this or valued. Come on girls smell the coffee and wake up. These guys won’t learn their lesson.
1. Beautiful: Looking into your eyes, holding your hand, you’re the only girl he looks at. 2. Chosen: He would jump out of his best guy friend’s car for you. 3. Needed: He needs you to be in his life to make him smile. 4. Adored: Kissing your forehead, holding you from behind, telling you that he can’t let you go. 5. Protected: Without being over cautious making sure that guys are treating you with respect, and that girls aren’t gossiping or saying unkind things about you. Holding your hand through the large parties and keeping you in his sight. 6. Irreplaceable: Keeping you in his schedule. 7. Valued: Giving you what you deserve, to give you a goal, to make you the best person you can be, giving you freedom and hope and dreams for the best. But nonetheless giving you a future regardless of him in it. Him wanting the best for you and him knowing that if he can’t do that someone else will. Him not having sex with you because he wants you to have the best within marriage, because that’s what it was created for. Praying for you, because he cares.
I know I never feel beautiful, chosen, needed, adored, protected, or valued. I feel like a toy. I get used by guys. They never want me. They pretend to. But I don't realize it and I just get hurt. For five minutes I'm all that matters. Then their cell rings and they go back to the girlfriend they didn't tell me about. I end up feeling like a cheap slut. But it's my fault for letting it happen, for being stupid enough to believe the lies.
You don't need to get those guys though, you want love in all the mistaken places and those are the guys you're attracting. There are better guys out there I've had the best because the way I act and the way I express my values towards men keeps the boys that will only use me away and the guys that will treat me like a treasure come towards me more, and I'm sorry that you have to deal with guys like that :( - 3 months ago
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