[M20] I just realized I only like girls i’ve known for years. Anybody else feels this way?

[Luke03]

I work in a night club, so i usually see hordes of beautiful girls and so on. Ofc, in most of the cases, i end up thinking “she’s very pretty/hot/beautiful”, but nothing else.

Instead, i ended up falling in love with 2 girls in my whole life, and they both were classmates of mine. I’m afraid i won’t be able to get to know a girl that long and that deep (both of those girls are among my friends actually) in order to start feeling something for her now that i’m not going to school anymore.

I really need a strong bond, a real friendship, in order to start developing feelings for a girl. (ofc that doesn’t happen in most of the cases because i’ve got some girl friends too and i don’t like them in a romantic way)

Is this normal? Is there somebody else who feels like me?

[ChiTown33]

Yeah man. I've always been like that. I'm not saying I can't see the physical beauty in a woman I don't know. But that is it until I know her deeper. I CAN'T have a connection without depth and trust.

I don't think it's weird at all man.

The good news is the women that don't get that. Or reject you based on that. You're really better off without. Just working on putting yourself out there. They can't want to know more about you if you keep it hidden.

[boobliker]

it just makes it easer to chat to them, talk to the people in the line at the suppermarket once you start you won't stop it a real buzz! zzz

[OddBeMe]

Yes. I only dated girls who I’ve been friends with.