I don't know if anyone has had this problem but I whenever I'm going to meet up with up with my guy friend to fool around I feel motivated to lose weight and go to the gym just so I can look good. When we started this friends with benefit I started to go to the gym and work out I even hired a personal trainer but the thing is I wouldn't eat. One time when I knew I was going to meet up with him I didn't eat for 2 weeks which I know it isn't healthy but I wanted the fast and easy fix but then every time we have a fall out, I start to eat massive amount of food and I feel horrible and depress but if he calls and says he wants to me up then I'm motivated again to be skinny. I just can't seem to get motivated by myself. Now it's been almost 2 months since we've talked I let myself go and I feel so bad and terrible but I want to be healthy and slim again especially since I'm moving into my university in a couple of months so does anyone know how I can deal with my emotional eating and begin to be healthy without having that guy being my motivation?
I think you need some help. Seriously. This is bad and not healthy. You can't go tying in your physical health to an on-again, off-again relationship. It's really no good. And if you can't move past that yourself, you need counseling to get you there.
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