If a guy talks about how it would be if you cook together and flirts about doing more than cook does that mean he sees a future with you?

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So we were talking about what we were cooking for dinner. I make mostly vegan meals and he doesn't so he was wondering how it would be in the kitchen when we cook together. And then he said that wouldn't be all we would be doing lol

I didn't do anything but laugh because I don't want to assume anything or say anything wrong.

I'm focused on myself right now but I wouldn't mind in the future something be more between us again.

Yes the he is my ex.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I look at it like this you first start talking with somebody and if you're interested and you like them you're going to flirt that's the biggest thing ever you have to flirt because then you get to know that person even more you're not thinking the future you're not thinking of anything except for flirting and trying to feel who this person is

When this happens you can't think anything more than what is happening except for now you have to listen to those words that that person is speaking to you because it could turn into a manipulation to get what he wants and you have to be able to understand that and be able to read that otherwise you're going to walk into something and get hurt you have to just let time take over as you are listening to the words the way that they are delivered to you and everything else behind it otherwise you're just going to get hurt

But in saying all the above If you want there to be more let's just pretend here that you're horny And you'd like the conversation you want to feel the conversation you're lonely So you long distance Sex it or whatever

Or if the person lives by you you meet up you hook up and that's just because you both want that there's nothing wrong with it as long as you both know what you're doing you both get what you want and that's it

You just have to be honest with yourself And if you want to experience it that's a beautiful thing because every experience is a beautiful thing Depending on what you want For me I love that type of stuff because You grow with it You learn from it

And either you remain friends or you don't but that's up to the both of you and how you handle things

But I wouldn't ever think anything in future wise or read anything into it there's a time in a place for all that to happen but first you have to be honest with yourselves on everything that you both want

Tarifa · Accepted Answer

It means he's thinking about you a lot and is looking for any excuse to get together. It doesn't matter if it's cooking, dancing lessons or a hiking trip, he wants to spend time with you. And chances are he wants more than cooking, dancing and hiking.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

He knows that you are his source to have sex with and he's testing your reaction to what he said.
Since I wasn't there to see your response to what he said, it's safe to assume from your history together that he's horny and wants you to have sex with him AGAIN!
The cooking together just gave him an innocent reason to be around you so he could start planting his seeds and questions in you AGAIN!
He needs to shit or get off the pot with you and stop all of his crazy games he plays with you and you give him permission to do it.
Here we go AGAIN - solving your problems with your ex. How long have we been on this merry-go-round with the two of you now? Almost a year or more?
It's really getting old!

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

He definitely sees a scenario with you, and he's clearly attracted to you. However, talking about the future and actually building one are two different things.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Somethings cooking other than food right now & if you two can cook in the kitchen I’m sure you two will be cooking in the bedroom as well. As for him being your ex that’s another story & I wouldn’t be surprised if his goal is to drop your panties, fake it until he makes or he truly misses you or misses being boom boom buddies.

MontBlanc · Answer

Not always. Sometimes people flirt and imagine little domestic moments because they feel emotionally comfortable with you in that moment, not necessarily because they’ve already pictured a whole future.

But I do think small things like talking about cooking together can mean someone enjoys the idea of sharing everyday life with you, not just attraction alone.

The bigger sign is consistency.
It’s easy to say cute things in the moment, but how someone treats you over time usually says more about whether they truly see you in their future.

MrChinaski · Answer

I have absolutely no idea what he meant.

At the start of a relationship, yes cooking together is sexy and yes talking about doing that is throwing a marker of future possibilities.

But... with a former partner... it's the sort of intimate banter I exchange with my ex-wife all the time. There's still a great deal of closeness. But throwing around this sort of conversation is just entertainment for us... we are NOT getting back together.

So... to recap... I have absolutely no idea what he meant in your circumstance.

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ElenaSeluna · Answer

This guy is not easy at all.. no offense  he is making you overthinking stuff again with no clarity  be careful.. don’t let him pull you again to the same place you were in before.. good luck

NathanDavis · Answer

that has... absolutely nothing to do with the future, as a future someone who sees a future with you, actually PLANS the future with you it will not be "coding it" as "let's fuck in the kitchen" lol

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know. I had a man I dated for a year tell me he’d buy the groceries and would I cook something specific for him and he never did. Only you know how much stock you can put into him especially if you two dated before.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

After cooking... there could be... baking barbecue sandwiches and such. For more clarity I suggest to find out who is supposed to buy the groceries and condoms.

Still-alive · Answer

He just wants to do you thats what that means lol

WhitneySnow · Answer

He definitely meant to flirt with you, but he’s not serious. Give up on this guy! He’s bread crumbing you.

Bricealan · Answer

@simslover92 Not easy for an outsider to interpret a comment like that, "Lover". I guess I would see that as a positive thing.

lilBigPotato · Answer

He sees his dick in your pussy. Anything more than that... I don't know.

Shiprex · Answer

He probably wants to hook up and get his end away.

Xawyx-2 · Answer

Maybe... if he really likes cooking, he might be serious.

HollyK21 · Answer

It just means you can get it on in the kitchen.

Abbycado · Answer

Or, he wants in your pants. Just sayin’.

spartan55 · Answer

Ugh... the ex... come on now...

eagle1951 · Answer

sounds like it

jazzy34 · Answer

Maybe.

smahala1991 · Answer

It could be fun

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