Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?

Im an Indian Guy born and raised in European country. Here they are somewhat xenophobic also protecting their culture I guess, but still I consider myself very lucky. Its how you carry yourself and how confident you are. In fact it has nothing to do if you are Indian or not. I may be lucky with my looks, but for years of shyness or fear; The way you are raised in an Indian home (as I was a in University only then my parents started behaving modern and comprehended and accepted the bi-cultural we live in, and now we are perfect the we are as people) it is many times the fault of Parents of indoctrinating their children (and that goes for all cultures) with their Cultural background, traditions and values (which have immense value at the same time). Indian parents ask a lot from their children and many times instill fear and this fear is a cultural monster. Even my parents whom I consider highly intelligent and cosmopolitan people, didn't get it that in everything there is needed a balance. Only when they saw that their rebel son was just doing better than they had expected in his character by taking my life and my thoughts into my own hands, they let go and now are even proud. What I am trying to say is do not feel you have to suck up to anyone, and especially not just any chick who's only nice introduction to you probably was her looks (maybe don't know). Beauty alone shall never impress you. Think of yourself as Soul and see only other souls, and think everyone else just sees souls and no flesh. Soon you realize how human behavior is actually Cliche.

I am Indian, but don't really care so much I am. I care of who I am as a person.

Here even where I would girls rather dating white guys, I stand out. Without bragging, women talk to me/ flirt all the time. I know its also my looks(so Indian guys can be quite attractive), but I had them also 5 years ago, where I knew how to be with women, but my indoctrination of an illusive perfect marriage story, happily ever after made me more fearful of hurt in any way and also rejection at times that I didn't Date girls further then kissing, unless it happened in the same night. I only wanted this or be married with the perfect girl. Get this kind of sh*t out of your head, because everything is anticipation. You don't have to sleep with women to learn about yourself in this area. You just go with your own little perfect flow and take things smoothly. DOnt take anything a woman does personal, unless they are life matters like serious love. But then always let your gentleness, parents try to teach you while being a bad example themselves many times out in your own best way.

FOr the girl who got mistreated by the Indian dude who was at first nice, it makes me angry. I hate to see this stupidity to handle their emotions, I mean guys, especially Indians. The reason I see is f***ed up Indian movies screw up their emotional balance, society pressure in India, etc. I am sorry this happened to you. Depends on person

I am a guy and I will give you answer? Listen carefully and think

This world as created a caste system where white is on top and the darkest shade is at the bottom. Indians, mixed breeds Asians you guys even half blacks were just f***ing happy to not be at the bottom. Basically your new to America not western culture but Americans cannot understand that Indians and Pakistani have been more dominant in migration to Britain old colonial country. People familiar with cricket, European football, tennis etc Indian food is more common to white Europeans meaning British than Americans. So people look at you as wanting to jump the line. Then look at how world looks at south Asians, (bombs threats, y2k,bin laden, honour killings, wife beatings, infanticide of female babies, clitoris mutilation though Muslim but brown people get grouped into one pot. Eh some girls even think he got is wife at home in the old country, Some women cannot identify with spacey foods---But in general India has some of the most beautiful women in the world---largest middle class population. Indian guys come with money and attitude and white women have turned down black with money---So you need to realize the women you are dealing people look at caste system and name "Girl at gym she says who cares your just a Paki" What's sad you care if you really like a girl treat her nice be proud of your self stop trying to be too white---and find your place in the line which is probably right in of the line with the middle and lower class people and blacks mind you blacks are some good athletes with really big d***s but they usually get a middle class white girl or really nice black girl, Look at Elizabeth Hurley when her career fizzled and she was getting tired she step down and married a rich Indian guy She would have taken a rich famous white guy but their was no takers--Its called stepping down these white bitches too old and you f***ing Pakistani Indians and blacks you pick them up--Leave them alone don't judge book by cover, really want a white girl after all that lower your f***ing standards now.

for your question behaviour, attitude, silent type and next time ask bitch like the black do ! Eh what's you up you seem so down if you have a thing against Indians I leave why stay and take that sh*t--I have seen some nice looking Indian guys with white girls when you ask these questions sometimes post your picture so people tell where to look for white girls.

Here is a tip Russian women ethnic they like Indians, Bulgarians like Indians, British women, try Hispanic a shade down from colour caste but close see your problem now love is strange Eastern Europeans Dutch women

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