Honey, dump her! Guilt-trippers over rational behavior like yours are no good. She may be insecure, manipulative, or just controlling, but whatever her issue is, that's not yours to fix. With a healthy partner, you'll only feel guilty if you really did screw up. So run!
You (or anyone for that matter) are way too young for this. I had a relationship like that, where the guy made me feel guilty for wanting alone time to play a video game, and it was sheer Hell.
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Well threaten to dump HER and don't be such a wimp. She's bossing you around!
Don't cheat on her, but be stern and serious about what she's doing. Don't ever be afraid to lose her, she sees you are and she's taking advantage of it. That's not how things are supposed to work at all.
Can't believe you're just buying her crap.
She's trying to control you. I don't k ow your history with her, but I'd get purified this relationship. She doesn't seem to really care for you, she just cares about controlling you. I don't see this ending well, I'm sorry :-\
OK it sounds like you're totally p****-whipped. But at your age you're used to taking orders, so I don't blame you. But you need to start being more assertive and independent-minded. Your girlfriend is manipulating you and she knows it.
It sounds like its going to be tough to get her to change if she can. I think ending the relationship would work best but try to get her to change and listen to you before dumping her right away
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she sounds controlling and I don't blame you for not trusting her sometimes..i think she would cheat judging from her actions,she can talk to the guys but you can't talk to girls? she is a control freak.
she should listen to what you have to say/your feelings and take them into consideration and if your as close like you say she shouldn't have a problem with you having female friends because she should know you well enough to trust you. But you shouldn't want to be with someone that makes you feel bad or unhappy you deserve better :)
It seems that she just have insecurity or trust issue. If you don't want to be treated like that, find a new girl.
tell her what you told us, and tell her things don't change you're going to break up with her.
If she's that much of a problem you can do better.you don't need that in your life
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