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Does she like me or is she playing games?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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This is kind of long, sorry, I just want the best answer by providing as much info as possible.

For starters my crush and I are both the same age and are entering our second year of college. We do attend the same university where I met her through a one time joint class session.

When I met her we had no nerves or any awkward vibes. I got her number to study sometime. Well we had lunch instead and after that we couldn't hang out due to finals coming up. When we had lunch, she laughed all the time, said I have interesting stories, and her best friends boyfriend is living with my best friend next semester, go figure and she lives within 20 min of me.

When summer started a few weeks ago, we have been texting a good amount. I asked her to a carnival and she said "that's so nice will, id love to". When the carnival came about, there was no awkward moments or anything, she was just laughing the whole time. She paid for her own entry and midway through the carnival I said you should have let me, and she said she didn't like it when people pay for her in a light manner, and she said I could buy her ice cream. The whole time was amazing I must say.

So after two and some hours there we went back to my house and relaxed by the pool and talked for three hours about ourselves. She seems like the "good christian girl" type if you know what I mean. She asks me questions like, "whats your biggest fear?", "whats your lucky number?", "whats your favorite sport?". She always was detailed in her responses and put input in. She even said she had to meet my best friend. She teased me a little in a joking manner with my word usage such as unique and eccentric. We hit the topic of her ex-boyfriend (on my own accord) and she said he cheated on her and she just wants to be friends, and she asked me how many I have been in (zero) and said what do I look for in a girl.

I texted her the next day saying basically I had fun and I hope so did too and it was a unique time (inside joke), and she replied saying she had a great time and it was very eccentric (inside joke).

I asked her to see a movie with me this weekend but she said she couldn't sunday because of fathers day (forgot woops) and monday she couldn't but asked "maybe later in the week?". I told her I would talk to her when I get back from camping this week.

Well I asked her once again to see a movie and she said she will get back to me on it and when she did, she said "hey I'm so sorry this week has been so hectic for me and I am working the rest of it, but maybe one night after work or next week we can get together."

Problem is, is that its been like a month almost since I've seen her and I would classify our carnival thing as a date but I mean why wait so long for a 2nd? I feel like she has time management issues and its impossible to read her. Like she gives me all the signs but is always busy but she does get back to me and gives out other days.

Does she like me or is she playing games?


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tidegirl      When: 4 months ago
i don't think she's playing games. but I don't think she's very intersted as anything more than friends. the carnival thing didn't count as a date; from a girls point of view. she probably said the buy her ice cream thing to make you feel better about not paying for her entrance fee or whatever. but she paid for herself because it was casual hanging out, not a date. she may not be ready for anthing more than a friendship right now, which is probably why she;s been "really busy" the past month. when you asked her to the movies, well it just sounds more like a date right off the bat. than just hanging out. which probably made her nervous cause she doesn't want more than a friendship, so she's been "busy" and hasn't had time to go to the movies. she probably does have the time, but she's thinking you'll take it as a date even if she doesn't and doesn't want to lead you on. maybe start hanging out in groups together. like you her, and a few other mutual friends. that way you guys can get to know each other and she won't feel any pressure from you to go out on a date or anything. and who knows, maybe later it will turn into something. but for now I'd say just let anything more than friends go. cause I don't think it will happen at least not soon. but maybe later?
i hope I helped, or at least gave you a girls perspective on it.
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BloodMerchant
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BloodMerchant      When: 4 months ago
Your gut feelings would tell something. If she seems like she isn't interested, then forget about it. If she responds or calls back, or anything, then don't act as if you won something here.

I'd suggest you move on and find other girls.
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nobodyspecial      When: 4 months ago
Let her go. If she's interested at all, she'll call you. If she does, don't act too excited that she called. Be a little weary, she sounds flakey and is quite possibly playing games with you and maybe another guy. And if she likes you, you won't find out until you ask her if she does. Women, they come and they go. Go out and meet someone else. Play the field.
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