This guy and I have been talking for months. One day I decided to tell him that I like him more than a friend. He tells me the first time he likes me more than a friend but, he calls me right back and tells me that he likes me waaaaaaaaay more than a friend and that he was excited about the situation and can definitely see me as his girlfriend. When we meet up with each other he calls them dates. Where the confusion comes into play is when I received a message from him saying that I'm beautiful and that he loves how I call him sweet Kev and he loves how I call him handsome Kev and that I make him feel good and that I'm a awesome beautiful person. He said in the message also that he likes me a lot and that he knows he likes me BUT, then he puts in I'm one of HIS BEST FEMALE FRIENDS. what do you think about that?
This is kind of confusing. I think that he definitely has feelings for you, but he's stuck between turning it into a relationship or keep it as a friendship. Guys get scared about this type of thing because they don't want to lose the friendship if the relationship goes bad. With most girls they'll give it a try because they don't lose a friend if it doesn't work out but he genuinely cares about you. I would say keep it very light. Let him make the decision and don't give any attitude about it. If he feels like you're not trying to trap him he'll be more likely to give it a try.
I think this is very good insight - Yes, it sounds like he is playing it safe. I think it's tough sometimes for a guy to take things to a whole different level with a girl if they start out as "friends." I don't think it's impossible, but I think it's tough because of exactly what vmw above said. I never really thought about it before but I believe it's true! :) - 2 months ago
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