So like 5 months ago I met back up with an old friend whom I hadn't seen in a long time. we started hanging out and things progressed--he had asked what we were and he asked if we were 'together' as a 'couple'--when we had already been doing 'couple' things before we actually called ourselves a couple. well our schedules got kinda crazy during that time, and we hardly got to hang out, and things just seemed 'different' once we had made it 'official'--so we decided to call it off our 'couple' title. but we would still be friends.
well so we hung out a while ago back when we were supposed to be 'friends' and he ended up making some moves on me--and we ended up fooling around. I left it totally up to him and he made a move. and everythings kind of been going on since then. we hang out a lot--probably once or twice a week (we live an hour away) with a sleepover here and there. Wink
We hang out together, and with his friends. we have lots in common and we enjoy each others company. and we have amazing sex.and he holds my hand when we are together and even in front of his friends and he cares about me in bed, not just in it for himself. ya know? and we cuddle and hold hands in bed.so its not just like wham bam thank you m'am. lol
Its almost like we are in a relationship. but neither one of us has said anything about it. maybe because last time once we said something, things got weird. ?
I'm just wondering if its weird, or anyone else has had an experience like this.where things are just kind of 'unspoken'? but known.? any advice? anything?
my opinion he should be honest with him self , you should know what he's up to , does he want to be in a relationship with you or just to spend time with you , and at the end everyone goes in a different direction , so ask him to clarify the whole thing to you
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