Me and the guy that I really want have been friends for ages, but have got really close over the last few months. We have had sex a few times and it was good for both of us. We get on really well and I really want to be more to him than a friend. We have very similar tastes and we get on so easily...its like we don't have to try to be friends, if that makes sense. We have such a laugh and have some sort of contact nearly every day. The problem I have is that he says that he is not ready to be in a relationship with anyone. He has been badly hurt and doesn't trust women however he says that he trusts me.
When we are together it is like we are in a relationship in that we hold hands, cuddle, kiss, sleep together, have a fantastic time etc etc....he says that I am perfect girlfriend material!!! I really want to be with him so any help would be good....if you need any more details please ask.....oh and he lives miles and miles away!!
Update: But I would move if things went the way I want them to!
11 months ago
Update: He has told me what she done, and I know its the truth....he was very badly cut up by what she did to him.
I live 5 hours from him.......would he really travel that far just for that when he could get it where he lives.
11 months ago
Has he told the story of how he was hurt by women?
I just want to say that the line of not being ready for a relationship, is the standard line guys use when they are out playing the field. However, being hurt in the past is the exception; but I can tell you that I have told girls before the same line--not ready for a relationship because my last girlfriend cheated on me and I don't want to get involved just now, as I don't trust women.
AS I have said in other posts---this excuse puts me in the perfect spot because I can now bang the girl, and if she gets attached, I can say, well, I told you I wasn't ready for a relationship. And yea, he says he trusts you, but again, why isn't then he committing to a relationship? Looks like a red flag.
If this guy was really hurt in a previous relationship, maybe then he could be telling the truth, but you should be aware that his excuse is the normal excuse many guys use to get some.
He has told me what she done, and I know its the truth....he was very badly cut up by what she did to him.
I live 5 hours from him.......would he really travel that far just for that when he could get it where he lives. - 11 months ago
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If that's the case then, sounds he doesn't want a relationship, just yet. If this happened recently, less than a year, I guess all you can do is wait and hope for the best. - 11 months ago
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