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Why is he concerned I am "too innocent"?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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Started seeing this guy... he said he thinks I'm too nice and that I come off as really innocent and he doesn't want to corrupt me. I feel like that's an awkward statement. Then he wanted to know about what I've done sexually... and said he was glad I wasn't a virgin. Not sure how I'm supposed to respond to that...


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  • Ron601
    2377  
    4 months ago
    the way you respond top that is you keep going out and have fun.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      very true lol
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      hey it's your right as a human being not to give anything.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      see where it goes? not let him get anything lol
  • Phoenix52
    9016  
    4 months ago
    He's a player. Looking for sex and not commitment.

    He's having doubts about sleeping with you because he thinks you're too good of a girl. You're too nice, too pleasant, very feminine. And he knows that he will hurt you should he stick his d*ck inside you. Because he won't stay around for long. It's obvious. And interesting to you.

    "Then he wanted to know about what I've done sexually... and said he was glad I wasn't a virgin"
    --> and lemme guess - that was a lie. Lied to him about your V-card because you like him somewhat and want him to think you're experienced, right?
    Meh ... people bullsh*t to get approval from others. Whatever.

    How to respond to that? Who said you need to?

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      oh no, I wasn't lying. I am a nice person though
  • MakeLoveNotWar
    8966  
    4 months ago
    Maybe he reckons his perversions are too much for a virgin like you to handle lol?

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  • vptwarrior
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    4 months ago
    I think I get what he's feeling. He say's your too nice, it basically mean's he feels like you could go out with someone better than him and he may feel he's not good enough for you or not worthy for you and may also feel that he would screw you over somehow and change you without trying. It's like he value's you so much that he doesn't want to do anything that would change or harm you because he feels he would ruin you somehow if he did. This is only if he is actually interested in you. Do you get what I mean at all?

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Yeah, that makes sense. Maybe I won't bother with him :/ He seemed so nice at first!
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    4 months ago
    Well, I wouldn't want a $hithead like me corrupting some innocent lass. I wouldn't want a girl to waste her innocence on someone like me.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      lol. I don't know why I come off as so innocent. I guess I'll take it as a compliment?
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    4 months ago
    If he's not just kidding around, it's strange.

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  • Flamingo117
    1576  
    4 months ago
    Look, don't listen ti the other guys. They don't know anything. Talk to your love interest about it and make him understand that you're confused with what he said. Don't be passive. Be direct. You won't hurt anyone's feelings. Nothing bad will happen.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Okay. Might as well. He's 26 and I'm 23... He's got to be a bit more mature than a teen guy
  • avans
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    4 months ago
    Hes not interested

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      hmmm alright. well I guess that's that.
    • 4 months ago
      Completely agree, had a guy say same thing to me... After still pursuing him because I didn't understand turns out he slept with everyone. And eventually completely disrespectful and mean.
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      In my opinion yea
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      oh... so he IS just a player.
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Hes interested in sex not u
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      lol weird. why does he still want to take me out to dinner... wait, how's that an indication he's not interested?
  • Littletad
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    4 months ago
    I think he tried to say he wasn't interested, with the "don't want to corrupt you" bullsh*t. Translation let him corrupt someone else.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      oh, that he's just a player? I guess I'll find out :/
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      By all means, have fun, and I hope it goes well. But he asked, "what have you done sexually'. In my view, this says almost everything. Just my hunch though.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      lol is that weird?
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      ...
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Oh I don't know about that. We're still going on a date in like two weeks.
  • Prof_Don
    21658  
    4 months ago
    Simply put, he's concerned that he'll be dating a girl that isn't going to have sex with him.

    Remember that all non-asexual guys, want sex from their girlfriend. Even if he IS waiting till marriage (which this guy isn't), the urge to WANT to have sex with you is still there, although suppressed.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      So... does that mean he only wants to date to get sex from me?
 

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