Why do guys run away from me ?

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Why do guys run away from me ? Any thoughts ? I am a pretty nice person I like to have fun but at the same time I like to read,hell I am smart : I'm a med student in my second year ! But I don't brag about at all,I have tried to date guys who were less educated than me,same,or even more and always the same result : NOTHING but running !  Do I look that bad ? Then what is it ? Help please !

lost-angel · Accepted Answer

I knew a girl in college who had the same problem. She`s really intelligent, tall, beautiful, rich, nice, but she chased every guy away.

The problem wasn`t about what she had.

Every guy smelt her desparation. And it scared them off. Or just made them lose interest.

I`m not saying you`re the same... it could be, the guys you like prefer dumb chicks they could sleep with right away, or they have ego issues.

I don`t know any guy who wouldn`t be interested in a smart woman...

I wouldn`t waste my time on guys who would rather be with someone like paris hilton.

Mellene · Accepted Answer

I agree with jess7. Be proud of who you are, intelligence might scare guys away but it's only will show who is really interested in you and who is not. The guys you dated are probably interested in stupid uneducated girls who are easy to manipulate. And I'm sure you don't want to see that kind of guys near you =D

jess7 · Accepted Answer

I think they might be intimedated by u...ur smart and they might not be ...and hey be proud that you are smart...don't let anyone bring you down because of this...and you will find the rite person hope I helped.

escence_e · Accepted Answer

wel wel, the way you sound its like you say tht you don't brag, but then you say tht am the best student of my class. ! common don't try to be diplomatic in relations! DIplomacy is for politicians and not for lovers.

So if you are really desperate for a relation, then stay calm and be what you are and never fret over what you don't have .Be happy with what you have

martyfellow · Accepted Answer

Maybe nobody in your circles is ready to settle down, and a smart woman is usually a settling down woman by your age.  It may not be any more complicated than that.   Not knowing you, it's my best guess.

Anonymous · Answer

its never about yourself.just be yourself and don't care what boys think.if you are smart you need a man w self confidence that's the main trait you ve to look for and thank god that the others ran cause clearly they are losers and you deserve more so wait and see and stay humble as you are dnt try to pretend to be stupid.also dnt brag about what you ve.its not ur looks you are cute.tc

satish · Answer

How did they run away?  Did they run away as soon as they see you coming? Did they approach you and as soon as you open your mouth they run? Did they hang out with you and a couple of days/weeks later they run?

rwb0027 · Answer

Some guys I guess could be intimidated by an educated, career oriented woman.  I myself usually prefer the type that can tell me when I'm full of it and why.  =)  Keep looking!

MightyHeart · Answer

i agree with the other two Besides, a little fact : guys are actually a bit afraid of intelligent girls so the ones who ran were just not good enough to be with you...

Emilymarie77 · Answer

I agree with Shlei3 - - sometimes you have to go through so many wrongs to get to the right - makes you appreciate them even more  though.

a_man · Answer

maybe, are you a type of person who likes to be in control?  A guy would feel more comfortable if you let him lead you.

vMort · Answer

perhaps you are coming on to strong or not strong enough... we would need more info

Shlei3 · Answer

It takes a lot of kissing frogs before finding your prince sometimes.

topramen1982 · Answer

Well, some dudes are afraid of intelligent women...I know a lot of my friends are. How are you personality wise? That's always the kicker...and how exactly are they running away? Like "OMG, AHHHHHH!" or what...

Anonymous · Answer

Lots of guys gave been badly hurt by women, so they're reluctant to open their hearts again.

Anonymous · Answer

every pot has a lid, and you will find yours too, its nothing to do with how you look, its plainly how to actto make them want you more. I'm sure soon enough there will be some one who will appreciate everything about you

tyrantfuryre · Answer

It's not your looks, you're cute.

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