Do you girls think that when you see a guy with a six pack and just a really fit body that they are good in bed or that they would be good in bed due to their body? Just curious. Also what do you think when you do see a guy that has a really fit fit body. Not body builder, more like Ryan Reynold in Blade kind of body. For example this picture link
Ok, I know girls care less about look then guys do. But hey, we still DO care. Especially if the guy in front of you looks like the guys in the link. I won't be thinking wow, I wanna have sex with this guy, he's probably good in bed, or whatever. I will probably be thinking how incredibly athletic and disciplined he must actually be to have such a good body. I mean, it takes a lot of effort and hard work. So, I guess its right to look and appreciate someone who has been doing their best to look well. Personally, I have a bf, and I do not want to show off or anything, but he does have a really good body. Still that's not the reason I fell for him, but its something I'm proud of because it shows how determined he is. Of course, that determination and hard work has to carry on to other aspects of his life, but it's already a start. I mean, if the guy is clearly overweight, I would believe him to be not only lazy, but also unhealthy. If you care enough for yourself, you will care enough to be happy, that's what I think. And I agree that it goes both ways. In the same way that I expect him to work hard and have determination, he expects that from me. The girl should also take care of herself and her body. Its less about what other people think, but how it makes you feel inside. If your happy with the way you look on the outside (and receive compliments for it), you will also probably be happy inside, and it shows :)! I still haven't met someone whose fat or overweight and wouldn't want to loose weight. Because being thin, healthy and having a nice body, is not only about the physical aspect, but also the emotional one. So yeah, when I see a guy like that I'm impressed and feel happy for him, because I know he earned it. It makes me value him as a person as well.
Vain and high maintenance? so your saying that every guy that is in great is vain and high maintenance? just wondering.... - 4 months ago
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No, I'm fully aware that there are going to be exceptions to the rule. I dated a guy a few years ago who was a body builder and he spent more time in front of the mirror than I did. It was totally ridiculous. - 4 months ago
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Thats not the same of what I'm talking about at all, I'm talking about your lean surfer tan guys who are not completely off the hook jacked...... just regular 6 pack lean muscle..... - 4 months ago
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^_^; I got the 6 pack part, and that's what I'm answering based off of. I definitely prefer a guy who's got lean muscle and is toned rather than a guy who's got a 6 pack. It's nice to look at but I like something to sink my nails into when I'm in bed to be blunt not just hard muscle. - 4 months ago
When it's obvious that a guy's muscles are gym-built (or steroid built) I tend to think he's a bit vain...it's a bit like, "eh...eww" so I don't really consider what he'd be like in bed. If I saw a guy who's body is toned (but not ripped..) through them doing sport or whatever then I'd like it. I don't really consider looking good to be connected with being good in bed though.
You don't think that a well toned guy would perform a bit better in bed? Or do you at least think of him as wanted to get him into bed? - 4 months ago
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No, I don't necessarily think a toned guy would be better in bed. Well, maybe he'd be better in bed than an obese guy would...lol. And I don't ALWAYS look at well toned guys and think "I wanna get him into bed...", only sometimes ;-) - 4 months ago
he has a nice shape but I prefer guys with a little more pecs, kinda like the guy in the ad in the after picture
if a guy is really confident then I think he's gonna be good in bed. if a guy has big arms I think what it would be like for him to pick me up and do me against the wall or something
when I see a guy with a nice body, I have never thought about whether or not he's good in bed. I usually think about how I would like to get him in the bed
No, I never assume anything like that. I'm not even attracted to guys that look like that really..And when I see a guy that looks all muscley like that I usually wonder why he would put soo much time and effort into making his body look ripped when it would actually look better just toned.
Can you tell me what the difference between the two are? - 4 months ago
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Ok, Ryan Reynolds is ripped. This guy on the right in the picture (this is the only example I could think of haha) http://20848-artist.wiki.livenation.com/file/view/Blink-182-Poster.jpeg/87025815 He's toned, and I think his body is a lot more attractive than Ryan's. - 4 months ago
Wellll...yes. X-D I was gonna come up with a really like, long elaborate answer, but yeah, totally when you see a guy who has muscles and looks fit, especially if he also has a cute face, liek any guy would, I think, yeah I'd hit that =D and then imagine it for a few seconds... and yes, that guy has a sick body X-D xxxxxxxxxx
no, I don't assume when I see a guy with a jacked body that he'll be good in bed. I assume that he's strong and healthy. but big muscles have nothing to do with sexual performance. but ryan reynolds DOES look like he'd be a beast in bed, but that's not true of all muscly men.
@Ivarei: It's the actor that plays Sookie's brother on.. that one vamp show. *Can't remember the name.* Hrm. TRUE BLOOD! Yes. That's it. - 4 months ago
Hahaha, goodness no! Fitness has very little to do with how I think a guy will perform in the sack.
I dated a very fit guy a month or so ago and he was good, but I'd had better. The better performer was super skinny and plain.
I feel like that kind of thing is also preference based. I typically do what I call wishful thinking association with any guy I find attractive independent of fitness level, i.e. I see a cute guy walking down the street and think 'hmm he's probably good in bed' or I at least imagine that he is. I only think this because I find him attractive. He could be fit, he might not be.
I wouldn't think that somebody is good at f***ing just because they're attractive. What do I think? Fuck. I don't know. I think they're attractive, usually, I guess, but nothing more than that, specifically. It's kind of hard for me to put my thoughts into words, when it comes to things like this, because they usually happen so quickly. It's kind of confusing.
Thats not what I'm asking lol, I'm asking from a girls stand point of what they actually think when they see a guy with a really git body, your not a girl are you? lol =P - 4 months ago
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