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Making eye contact and quickly looking away v.s. holding your gaze?

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sassysinga2 (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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So you like this guy, and obviously you look his way when he comes near. You make eye contact with him and he either
option #1- makes eye contact for like four seconds and then looks away
option#2- holds your gaze for awhile longer, until you shy off and look away
What does this mean?

I always thought that if a guy quickly looks away, then he is probably shy and doesn't think he's good enough for you. And if he holds your eyes, he is more or less confident/cocky and is challenging you to come and get him, because he knows he's that good and is not going to budge.

Basically either way, I believe that if you guys don't know each other at all, besides a "you've seen them in the hall a couple times" type of person then the girl has to make the first move and somehow create a scenario in order to talk to him and introduce herself. Do you agree with my reasoning? Any comments/opinions would be appreciated. :) Thanks!

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verbotenmemory (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I believe that it is perfectly reasonable for the guy to be the one to create a scenario as well. If two people like each other and don't know each other very well, it's almost a game of trying to see who snaps first and makes an obvious move. As for your eye contact analysis, there is a possibility for the guy to like you, is shy, but forces himself to make eye contact because he believes logically that it helps, and then shy away.
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tinkerbellX3 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
I like your reason because it might work for you because it sounds like you have him under you power or wing. And now he should be your.
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