We keep exchanging glances?

I like the advice. Thank you. Now before I've seen her sitting at a table alone, but today I saw her talking to a friend. If the friend is nearby, should I not try hitting on her? Would it make the other girl feel insecure if I was attracted to her friend more than her?

Attraction is something humans can't take control over, but tell me this. Who do you really want to try to win over? her friend or her?

My friend does this sometimes. He hits on the the girls friend and the girl gets jealous "why isn't he talking to me?" and gets interested. Make her follow you and give her hints on the way that you like her. Be bold but not too forward. If what I said made sense to you haha x)

if you have anymore questions feel free to ask.

I want to attract her, and I don't want to make her jealous. I'd rather have her see me for me.

Well good you've got your mindset on what you want. Always have a goal. But prepared a lot of girls like playing the "game" not ALL but a lot. So don't get paranoid if she doesn't txt you back or something. Just take it slow, make moves on her, get to know her, oh and make sure you don't end up in the friend zone just a heads up.

Any tips for avoiding the friendzone? I run into this problem a bit

Haha same here but don't be too nice. Be assertive. Make MOVES don't wait till like a month or something to show that you like and stuff. Compliment her but not too much. Keep her hooked all the time, don't be too eager to reel her in. I didn't mean to make that offensive to any girls. Treat her with respect and show her your feelings.

Did that help?

Yeah it did. So just be nice but don't seem desperate?

EXACTLY

nice but don;t sound needy

confident but not cocky

flirty but not harrasing

fool around with her but don't be a jerk

make moves on her but also wait and see if she is interested before you make more initiative.

(not to be a hassle but if I helped you mind putting this as best answer? haha thanks (: )

Good luck man and keep me posted .

Well it's the only answer, but you have been very helpful so thank you. Best Answer for you! Thursday is when I'll see her again, so I'll let you know.

The only other issue I have is I don't live on campus, so if she does it may be hard for us to get together. I may not have the time for a relationship this semester but I really want to go for her.

Thank you :)

hm... that could be a problem. I'd say focus more on studies though.

How often do you see her a week?

what days are you free?

It wouldn't hurt to give it a try.

I'm only there Mondays and Thursdays, and it's an hour drive. I think it could work but I'd still like to try. I will focus on my schoolwork of course, but I do want to develop a relationship with her.

Well first of all I wouldn't get too ahead of yourself.

You'd be surprised how easily it is to just do it instead of contemplating.

What you're thinking about right now is a scenario that COULD happen, but what if it doesn't?

What if you talk to her and she turns out to be someone you're not interested in. Things can happen out of no where. It is better to have your approach and goal ready.

Either things will fall into place or it won't

It was meant to be or it wasn't

You can study and start a relationship with her.

But this would be in the future after you initiate talk with her and get to know her first.

If you two give enough effort and try to make it work no doubt you can do it. A relationship is a two way street. Meet each other halfway.

But jsut remember anything can happen. My answers as well as anyone elses are merely suggestions. It just gives you advice, but if you feel like it isn't right don't follow it.

BE YOURSELF.

Yeah I understand. I'm just afraid of not being able to fulfill my obligations if a relationship does occur from this