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Why am I suddenly not thinking about him

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meomy11 (Age:Under 18)     When: 6 months ago
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This guy I like is so freaking shy he is a waiter at a restaurant I sometimes go to and lately I have been going more just to see him whenever I go he just stares at me if it's not that he's walking past me and looking at the corner of his eye to see if I'm looking ok blah blah he's shy but I'm shy too and whenever I see him I get butterflies and I smile a lot and I try to fight it but it's hard. So to the point I have had it with the nasty ass food at that restaurant I only go there for him the food is so not good I'm tired of going there but how else can I see him and build enough courage to talk to him this is KILLING me I really want him and I can see in his eyes he feels the same but he won't make a move and when I said hi he looked in my eyes and practically ran away he walked so fast like he was really nervous now it's kinda awkward because I haven't seen him in a while and I kinda don't like him as much as I used to but I still occasionally think about him how do I get him to talk to me and why am I suddenly not interested as much as I used to be?

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Smittymd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
I think that you might not be as interested because I would guess that there are some others guy out there that you are thinking about. If you want to talk to this person the easiest way that I can think of is to go up to him and talk to him. Easy said than done, but if you want to reap the rewards you are going to have to be daring. Good luck
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Miss-Spicy
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Miss-Spicy (Age:36 to 45)      When: 6 months ago
You have lost interest in him. That happens. There is only so much you can do with a guy who won't say hi back to you.

I say try to spark a conversation one more time with him and if he won't talk, move on.

Good luck!
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Caramel
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Caramel (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
Because no women wants a men shy to that extend it get annoying I mean is he gonna run away when he will meet ur friend and parents ? How shy can one be , he is probably scared of women , or maybe he is gay I don't think you should chase him like that , go to the restaurant one last time and as he gives you the bill slip a paper with a small message on it something like

" Would you like to catch a movie sometime ? If so call me (your number)

Then you won't have to go to that disgusting restaurant anymore , if he calls then he likes you if not then you get the message and forget about that restaurant or guy!

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Question Asker I say you are freaking awesome lol thank goodness because I totally hate that place and he's being a total flake so thanks for that GREAT advice. - 6 months ago
Answerer Im glad I can help , this is the best way you can't be put in a bad situation and you tried everything !! let me know what happens sweetie - 6 months ago
 
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