Ok so here it goes, we were friends in high school, and after that we started hooking up. We have been hooking up for almost 2 years but about a year ago it changed, we started going on dates and doing other stuff. So now I'm really liking him and I don't know if he feels the same way. These are some of the things he does
I am usually the one to text him first but usually he will leave me IM's in the middle of the night so I have something from him when I check my messenger
When we talk its always for a pretty long time like 2 or 3 hrs
When we go out he is always holding me
We watch the same movies together in each of our own houses and text each other little comments about it
He tells me things about him and his family and he remembers everything we ever talk about no matter how small and this one time he told me that if doesn't remember something its because it doesn't really matter
A few weeks ago he went to prom wit his best friends little sister because she didn't have a date but it was also my little brothers and sisters prom. He went and hung out wit them and had my little sister take a picture if him and her together so she can send it to me. Its little things like that that make me think he is into me as more than FWB
Like a week ago it was my bro and sis's graduation and he saw me (I didn't see him) and he texted me to go sit wit him and his best friend for a little while but I had to stay wit my family
YESTERDAY he came over to my house to swim because I have a pool, but we didn't do anything my bro and sis hung out with us and he meet my mom and that was the day, but the few times we were alone in the pool he would hold me, and when me sister was around he would hold me 2
I had bought my tickets to go see The Dark Knight and I wanted to see it on imax but all the imax were far from my house, he found one closer to my house and helped me find a way to try and exchange the tickets I had for the new one at the imax, and he is going to watch the movie there too
the one problem and that's what has me confused the most is that we only see each other like once a month and that's it.
i don't know if this makes a difference but he has never had a girlfriends but yeah
What do you guys think?
Some people have told me that you just know if someone likes you but I fell like he does but the way we started makes me unsure.
other people tell me its because he wants to keep having sex. but we were already doing that so I don't see y he had to change his behavior. so what do you think?
Well, you can take it or leave it--but your situation is like some of my past relationships to the T.
So from a guys perspective--and I'm being totally honest to how I feel this dude feels, albeit I don't know him or his mind, so take everything I say with a grain of salt.if that's the expression.
The guy obviously has feelings for you on some level in his mind. Yes, you guys started out as friends, but then you went sexual, that never really is the best thing to do--but hey who am I to judge? Once you go somewhere, you can never really take it back. So no matter how hard you try, you can't just be friends anymore.but you know that.
If what you said was right and he has never had any girlfriends, then I have have two things to say: One, he has no idea how to have a relationship or how to start one. He's going on whatever people give to him. Two, there is something else at work here. That's not to say he's messed up in the head, but for some reason he's keeping things distant. Why? I don't know. Figure that out and you might have your answer, or maybe not.
He also probably doesn't want to ruin a good thing, but wants something more from you. Like I said, once you go there you can't go back. He's used to your present situation, change is scary--but he wants to change a little.
Finally, is there a reason you two see each other only once a month? That's another reason why nothing has happened yet.
So the question leaves to you--do you want something more? You figure that out before you start analyzing his actions. If you don't, then just nip it in the butt--remember, silence is deadly.
Oh yeah, I stopped talking to the girl who I had been fwb, as you put it, after awhile of going out. It turned out that after being so sexual before any real emotions were evident, really doesn't help a lasting relationship. Just a little bit of advice.
Yeah ur right, I think if anything he might not know how to start a relationship becuz when we talk he says he wasts to get married when he is 25 so it seems like he wants to settle, I kno the sex thing was a bad idea but I didn't think I was gonna fall for him or that it was going to stop being just booty calls, and that we were gonna start going out out... I DO want something more and that's y I'm analyzin this, that's y I wanna kno if he has possible feelings for me b4 I say anything to him - 6 months ago
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Just be careful, there's nothing more annoying than a guy who doesn't want commitment or doesn't know how. Trust me. Best of luck though! - 6 months ago
I think he does like you as more than FWB, if he didn't then he wouldn't go out of his way to do all of these things that show he cares. Sex is a very intimate thing, and it seems as if this has brought the two of you closer together. It doesn't always work that way, usually the relationship comes first and then the sex, so its like the other way around. But I think you get my idea. You two are just doing stuff in reverse order. :)
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