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How to get guys to not hit on you?

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tokyoqt (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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this might sound really conceited of me but I'm asking this question because it's starting to become a problem and I really need some serious answers on this. I get hit on by numerous guys and at the most, 7 in 30 minutes. on one occasion this guy asked for my number and I quickly said "no". I kept walking for 15 minutes and at a stop light I see him next to me and he said he ran after to me. he keeps on asking for my number. he even asked if he could come to my house. on another occasion, I'm eating a nice dinner with my dad and this guy behind my dad keeps staring at me and mouths to me "GO TO THE BATHROOM". he really made my dinner uncomfortable for me. it's just becoming crazy. I feel safe when I'm around my dad and now I don't. it's not like I wear skanky clothes either. I was wearing a polo and jeans. I tried not wearing any makeup either and that didn't work. its just becoming to the point where I'm scared to leave the house. do you guys have any suggestions? I really need some help.

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obscene (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
never go out alone
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Newport100
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Newport100 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Wow, there are a lot of beautiful women on this site that say they are considered very attractive yet the guys DON'T hit on them, the guys are intimidated and avoid them seemingly at all cost.

I find this facinating and I wonder what the differences are.
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Answerer I didn't check your age range, you must be a very striking young lady. my bet is that some guys think you are naive and unexperienced. - 3 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
i have your same problem but its girls and guys. rofl like every girl and gay guy I see flirts with me. while I was working one day there was a really big buff black guy(late 30's) with a kid that said "go to the bathroom" to me so I did. (I didn't know why., so I was like hmmm ok.i was dumb.) it turned out he was gay. he unzipped his pants and grabbed my hand. I called the cops and they thought I was gay. I actually like all the attention I'm getting but not from the gay guys. the flirting is kind of fun for me. maybe you should start carrying a tazer lol maybe I should too.
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PHYSICALSPECIMEN NEVER FOLLOW A STRANGER THAT TELLS YOU TO FOLLOW HIM ! - 3 months ago
Answerer Lol now I know that... that was the scariest time of my life - 3 months ago

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PHYSICALSPECIMEN (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
You must be strikingly beautiful, wow, even without make up, consider your self lucky, but BE CAREFUL THEIR ARE ALOT OF CREEPS IN THE WORLD ! Anyway just ignore them and if they follow you tell them to stop harassing you. Don't smile at them, look over confident appear bitchy, don't look available, don't look scared and in need of protection as guys like to protect, they will feel like you want a boyfriend ! Guys pick up cues if a girl is interested in finding a mate, don't look at any guys, cross your arms , don't point your body towards them, don't walk with exaggerated hips, wear baggy clothes, don't sit with your legs crossed at any guy and never were high skirts always long pants. If you are naturally attractive theirs only so much you can do. Good luck, stay near your Dad, remember be confident.
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Answerer Hay there I hope everything's going good , thanks for awarding me best answer you are a very sweet girl and beautiful to ! ( I was away that's why I couldent reply faster) - 2 months ago

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wally (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
I think either those guys are really sick or you're gorgeous ,anyway don't fell uncomfortable
and try to ignore them , if you find one that you like it will be great for you till then just be cool
live you're life but don't try to go out at night alone just in case ,be safe
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sanfranman (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
Well, what you really want to know is how to get guys *without game* to stop hitting on you. By definition, if a guy with game hit on you you would love it.

I know this is totally useless info to you, but for the sake of the guys who read your title and assume all women don't want to be bothered *by anyone*, I had to write this.

I wish I knew how to solve your problem though. I can't even imagine how irritating that must be. Good luck.
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Baby-Gurl
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Baby-Gurl (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
hahah I know what that feels like. Just ignore them. Normally I just give them a really really evil look and they back off. You just have to make yourself not seem so approachable . Which is hard.
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I don't think you should ugly yourself down just so guys won't talk to you. Just be really bitchy at times. Like if one of them looks at you, give them that you're-not-on-my-level look. Don't be friendly, try to be more snooty and mean around them.
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EmmaPaige (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I honestly don't think that there is any solution to your problem. :/
If you're beautiful, you're beautiful. The only thing I can think of is to gain loads of weight, not shower, and get acne or something. Obviously, though, you're not going to do that! Lol. I feel sort of sorry for you, although, on occasion, the attention must be nice. But some (like you said) are downright creepy. What you should do, however, when someone hits on you, FIRMLY say "NO!" and walk away. Have someone with you whenever you can, and always carry a cell phone. Oooh I just had an idea! If you have a boyfriend out with you, or even a good male friend, men are SO less likely to hit on you. That often works for me.no one has hit on me when I have my boyfriend with me.

I wish you luck, and I hope you take my advice! :)
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njm07 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Omg this happens to me as well! Like I have had such crazy guys after me, this one guy just wouldn't accept that I wouldn't give him my number and he was just walking with me, I even said I had a boyfriend (which I don't) and he's like, oh it doesn't matter just in case. There have been so many guys like that omg, seriously don't be afraid to appear rude or abrupt or whatever, cos they're the ones making you uncomfortable, and you should be able to tell them no stop talking to me stop even looking at me lol. You will be fine.
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wonderingwhy
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wonderingwhy (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Roll out of bed, and roll right into your day.
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dementedforte
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dementedforte (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Lol, I have this problem.
I even try to not wear makeup at times, and it doesn't work.

I just say, seem very unapproachable or seem overly-confident.
It may either scare guys away or make them intimidated.

If that doesn't work, then wear a hat.

:)
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