I would love to get his number so we can text, or just talk. Any ideas on a good way to ask for it?
Thanks you so much everyone,
I've seen someone pull off a very neat trick:
Hide your cellphone somewhere and tell the guy you forgot where you put it and ask him to help you find it. Ask him to call your cell so that it rings and you know where it is. There you go: his number is cached in your cell, and he also has your number.
My friend and I were sitting in my car outside an apartment building when this girl pulled over in front of us. She came to us and did exactly what I described above, saying she didn't remember where in her car she had put her cellphone. She was honest though, because she was moving in. I thought about it for a moment and went . "Ohhhhh!"
You are welcome.
Just bring up the fact that you really like talking to him, or something along those lines. Then just say, hey I don't think I have your number, or I'm going to be busy tomorrow at a meeting, you should text me. Bring it up casually and make it seem like you would like to talk to him besides just online and at work.
Thanks so much,
i never thought about saying it that way.
see, I am kinda scared to tell him I like talking to him because I don't want him to get freaked out that I like him and like run away and ignore me. =(
Unless he is really shy, or you are the meanest girl alive, that should be the least of your worries. If I thought a girl liked me (but wasnt an obessed staker freak... don't do that) I would think its cute. I would totally give her my number just so I could have someone else to talk to. I would think most guys would be like that. Even if he doesn't like you, at least you can be better friends. I think it would be best if you both became better friends before jumping to anything more
Continuing... You seem to not know each other that well, so it would be good if you got his number and talked to him more. That way at least you get a new friend without creeping some poor guy out and getting shot down at the same time :P
Obsessed stalker freak lol hahaahaha
like what would be the limit until it seem stalkerish?
Ive known him for over a year, and he's knows I liked him before and he didn't like me much(but he did have a girlfriend at that time). recently we started talking more and he's been a little nicer, but is still sometimes a ass.
... You need a limit? 0.o lol... well... Just don't go up to him and blurt out how much you like him and ask for his number and say he's your new greatest friend. A girl kinda did that to me before. She was nice and all and we sat at lunch together and we talked and it was all going well. I didn't like nor not like her. She was kinda cute and it may have worked out. Then one day she blurts out at lunch that she loves me and hugged me and didn't let go... that totally freaked me out. If she would
Damn text limits! If she would have said that she kinda liked me (even if she was totally obsessed) I wouldn't have avoided her so much and maybe something could have worked out. Take it kinda slowly and if he responds, then you can tell him that you like him.
i lost my number can I have urs?
ahaha jkjk someone sed that to me once and I burst out laughing.
when ur with him you can just take out ur cell phone and be like number?
or hey I don't have ur number
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Ask him if he wants to meet up after work for a bite to eat (then you can ask him for his number). Another great way to get his number is if you could find a work related reason to get it (like if you are working on a project outside of work for work ). The best bet is to just ask him for it though.
just remember, women can get away with a LOT more crap than men can, you can be a total silly and still get his Info.
men are the ones who have to be witty and be on their best behavior to get a woman's number!
talk about double-standards.
Ask him if he is single and if says yes then say why don't you take me to dinner this weekend then, and he might be like oh ok, and then say well what is your number here's is mine. It's pretty simple I know.
i think the best way is to just have your number written down and say I think you should text me sometime
well when you guys are chatting online tell hime that you have to go outside and that you'll be back later.but give him ur number and tell him to text you if he wants
just ask for it!
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