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Drunk texter on the loose

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(Age:18 to 24) When: More than a year ago

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Hello! Well I need some advice.

There is a guy (20s) in two of my classes. He is an attractive guy and I noticed him right away. I sometimes caught him looking my way and I have also done the same to him on several occasions. In one of my classes, he sits a few rows ahead of me, and one day last week, he turned around to talk to me about tests, etc, and then suddenly picked up his books and took the seat next to me. Needless to say, I was very excited. We passed notes the whole period and he gave me his number so we could continue the convo through texts. I texted him and we talked for a while, nothing too special, just getting to know each other. He said he was interested in getting to know me. That night, he texted me to tell me he was out with friends and would be drinking. He began to tell me how he noticed me the very first week in class, that I was cute and how he would like to go out with me and maybe be in a serious relationship. I told him that we should really get to know each other first before the relationship and also the fact that he was drunk while saying this didn't leave the best taste in my mouth.
For several days, he has texted me to say hi and see what I was up to, then suddenly it seemed to have stopped. He would go a few days without texting, but he would still sit next to me in class and everything. I texted him and asked when we could hang out and his response was hmm hopefully soon. I'm free this weekend, we'll figure it out.

I should add that he knows I am conservative and am waiting to have sex until I'm married, I don't drink.

But my question is, should I just ignore all that he said when he was drunk? Does he like me? I am very confused right now!

Sorry it was long and drawn out, too


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thoughtsbysabian When: More than a year ago

People tend to say what they truly feel when they drink. With this said, NO you should not ignore what he said that night. I would have to say that he really does like you. You bring up the fact that your a conservative person waiting for marriage to have sex, and you don't drink. I have to assume you feel that might be playing a role in why he may not be calling, texting, etc etc etc. Well this may be true, however I think you should be reminded that there still are some good guys out there that won't mind that. If you want this relationship to progress, make sure he knows you want it to progress. If he continues to find problems with setting up a day for you two to get together, drop it and move on.

Do you agree?