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I think that you should pay more respect to the fact that he's not always available to talk to you.
I mean, c'mon, the guy has a FULL-TIME JOB, and (even without judging, this one is the important thing that you need to remember) a (f***ing) GIRLFRIEND. At the very most, you are going to have to take third place in priority, because both of those things should be above others. Especially you, who has a crush on a taken guy. Yeah, it kinda says something that he is talking to a girl who has a crush on him, and hasn't told his girlfriend, but then again how does one explain that?
On top of that, I don't always respond to my friends, right away either. Especially around December, as that's usually a nuts time of year. But even then, I have a life, work, a girlfriend, friends, family, busy busy busy. When you have a life, and people to talk to, and two big things like a job and a girlfriend, time gets eaten up, and one can't always call their friends. Just assume he's busy.
Regardless of what you want, you are not top priority, and I think this is understandable, and I think this is just something you are just going to have to live with. I know this is harsh, but it's true. It needs to be said, and clearly, you already had a feeling before, otherwise you wouldn't have mentioned it, yourself.
Sorry. Just be patient, and deal with not being number one.
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I always say that if someone doesn't bother to send even a short reply, they don't want to talk. Plain and simple.
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It happens a lot with me and my friends... it just means he's really busy...or maybe he likes you so much that he's taking time thinking what to respond
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I think this sounds too dramatic to be honest, I'll just leave it short and simple. My heart's racing right now :(
Not sure how passive you want to be. If you want to be more passive, maybe you can add an "If you ever find it in your heart to forgive me, I'll be here" or something.
"Look, I'm really sorry for snapping at you and I understand that you're pissed, I've made a mistake. However, the least thing I want is for us to stop talking. But if you don't want to, I totally respect your decision!"
So I might have f***ed up. Yesterday we got into a little "fight" because of a misunderstanding, he thought I was mad that he can't respond like every 5 minutes, but that wasn't what I meant. All I was trying to say was that I felt disrespected by him but I didn't get a chance to say it. The last message sent was mine saying "I never expected you to do this?" (Referring to him replying every 5 mins) And he's seen the message but didn't reply yet.
I never wanted to be his first priority since he isn't mine either, it's just that he leaves me puzzled with the things he does sometimes, such as marking my message as unread, it still doesn't make sense to me at all.
But I appreciate what you said!