Men Do you feel bad when you see a girl cry?

i feel really bad when a girl cries

I hate to make anyone cry, but if that's their reaction to something that needs to be said, I can't do anything about it.

When I broke up with my last girlfriend, she cried and cried, and it went on I guess for weeks. I'm sorry she feels that way, and I didn't want to make her cry, but she did something I do not tolerate, and she knew that when we started, and so why she wouldn't expect me to break up I don't know why.

If I see a girl crying in general, I don't really get too worked up over it. Not to sound mean, but if I don't know her, why should I get unwound? I might ask her if she needs help. And if she needs help, I'll do what I can, but it's not something that throws me off, or makes me feel emotion. My emotions are mine, and they can't be initiated by someone else.

I don't think guys are ever happy to see a girl cry unless its the "happy crying". I know I always feel really guilty when I have been the reason for a girl to cry. However when a girl uses crying for sympathy in order for me to feel bad for her it can be annoying and upsetting. If its sincere. no normal guy is gonna feel good about it.

Guys really don't know what to do when a girl cries. They will usually try and fix the problem which most times they can't. So they are a bit dumbfounded and tend to have this "I don't know" look on their faces until the girl stops crying.