The guys I like don't like me, what will I do?

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I like guys who have longish hair kind of the same length ashton kutcher used to have, I like them in skinny jeans,the hole indie band vibe look but the thing is the guys don't like me most of them happen to be a lot skinner than me,im not fat tough I'm 125lbs and they just never go for me.i don't like any other guys so what should I do just give up on liking people if the ones I like don't like me ever?

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gravygirl Follow
Yoda Age: 47 , mho 67%

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I don't know that much about the scene you're talking about, but I'm guessing that any guy who wears skinny jeans is probably pretty superficial. He probably has a very narrow idea of what his girlfriend should look like, and I'd imagine it's a little pixieish waif girl. If you don't fit that mold, it might be pretty tough to catch their eye.

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  No indie guys are like band guys into bands like the killers, the kooks etc
  
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- gravygirl
  
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  I didn't mean he'd like the pixies, I meant he'd probably like his girls to be tiny.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Yeah like they aren't vain or into them self could never like a guy like that but I'm just never the girl they want and its anoying because I see them get with less attractive girls than me not being big headed
  
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- gravygirl
  
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  I don't know, I think all those indie boys are pretty vain. I'd bet most of them take longer on their hair than I do.
  
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lyn1800 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 38

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It could be a good solution. But giving up could be your greatest regret ever. So just stay loyal for now. And if you think ALL of them doesn't really like you, then its up for you if you want to continue or just simply, game over.

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wally Follow
Xper 4 Age: 46 , mho 36%

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I know that certain things that we want we can't get so why you don't try different type of guys I'm sure theirs a lot of guys they'll be thrill if you gonna hang out with them

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Yoda Age: 44 , mho 79%

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If you try for the same thing again and again, you'll get the same result again and again.

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