If you took 50 dollars from your mom - is it called stealing?

It's technically only called stealing -- if you get CAUGHT . If you think the money is rightfully yours, then you simply need to refine your money lifting techniques . Try taking the whole purse or cookie jar or whatever you took the money from, that way she might just think she lost it on her own or someone else took it . But just make sure you still ask her for some money BEFORE she notices her money is gone - that way you can counter her with the argument of "why would I be asking you for money if I took your purse . "

Or if you absolutely have to be honest, you can always leave a note (an I . O . You . ) in place of the money that you took, and sign your name on it -- that way it won't look like you're trying to get away with something .

Ha I have the same problem I cut a yard and every so often I get a 300 dollar check for doing it but my parents take it and keep all the money they only pay me back sometimes like 80 dollars every so often its not my fault they spent to much money on credit cards and stuff when they were young I want MY money that I WORKED for. But no they need it cause they were to stupid right now they owe me over $1,500. 00 dollars but well only give me 80 every 2 or 3 checks and they say their paying me off! Haha

Why didn't you include that vital part in your original question?

That's something you're going to have to discuss with your parents. Lay it all out and work things out.

"Mom I stole X amount of money because I believe that you took some of my money, is this true. "

Let the storm roar and hope that the rain washes and cleanses away the dirt.

It sounds like your mom has some real issues. Should you be lifting money from her? Well, no, but it's not like it's the most insane thing I've ever heard. When I was growing up we had a jar in the fridge with money in it for exactly those type of situations, where money was needed but neither parent was around.

The late Foucault noted once that it's only stealing from the point of view of property. In other words, we have an idea of ownership of things (money, land, dogs) and some of these things do seem like we truly own them, but, in the end it's still a perspective. It sounds like your mom has lost sight of that.

I'm sorry to hear that you have to deal with that. It's not a good mother-daughter relationship. It is stealing, but I see what you mean about it being different because, after all, family is supposed to be there to help you.

It's stealing if it's taken without permission - and that goes both ways. What happens that makes your mother take the money? Is that with some sort of deal you have going? Or does she just take it from you without your having a say, like snatching it out of your hand?

My brother, funnily enough, took fifty rand (South Africa's currency - at the time worth about eighteen dollars) from my mother's purse. She found out and it wasn't pretty.

As everyone else has told you. Taking something without permission of the person who owns it, is stealing. Doesn't matter who it is. Sometimes, in families, we can do this because of circumstances. But, we tell the person at immediate first chance what we did and hope they will be understanding enough to agree with the act. It's still stealing, but forgiveness will make it ok in the eyes of the one we stole from.

Personally, I would never take something from a family member without asking.

You understand that stealing is something that's looked down upon in every culture?

Stealing from your own family can result in being disowned. Trust me, that's the low of the low, stealing from one's own family.

As far as her beating you, if I stole from my family. I hope to god they beat me up for doing something so stupid and disrespectful. Not everyone in our family gets along but stealing is a boundary we know not to cross.

"Violence is never the answer," a cliche I don't always believe in as some things deserve a slap in the face. I know their are things I've said that are not tolerable and deservingly gotten the backhand.

If you are 14-17 this isn't too far fetched to how teenagers act in their rebellion stage but you are 18-24, come on. You are better then this.

She beat you up? That isn't good hun! That isn't healthy at all! As far as your question, if you take something that doesn't belong to you, without the person knowing, then it's stealing. Why would she beat you up?

Its called stealing, in fact you keep stealing from each other. My mom mooches dough off of me, but there's an AGREEMENT like "can I have money? " and I say "yes, you can" when I was younger I used to steal change from around the house, and perhaps I got a few smacks for it. "Beating" can either a. ) be an exaggeration, which without an agreement I might expect a smack (from my own experience) or b. ) she actually BEATS you and that is not right, harsh physical abuse is not right, especially over petty cash. If your down on hard times, and you know your mother needs that money for rent and food or such, you should really think twice about stealing it, When I got older I realized I shouldn't take money from my mom because we were not well off and every penny counted towards our survival (not to be melodramatic). So maybe these beatings (if this is your case) means "stop taking the food out of our mouths, think like an adult, we can't afford extras (not talking about books).

Yes when you take something that belongs to somebody else without asking them, I believe it is called stealing. And making excuses to justify your actions is wrong. If you're old enough to work and be that dependent on yourself, move out and don't give her your money. Unless she's having you pay her back for something like bailing you out of jail or maybe just having you pay rent. It's hard to give a good answer without knowing the WHOLE story hun.

Well, she is your mother. She has to pay for you a whole lot more then she takes from you. Food, electricity, internet bills, toys when you were growing up, etc. So her taking money from you isn't a big thing as you taking money from her. Maybe she really needs the money for something, like if she was in debt. Like my mom takes money from me all the time since she works all the time and still doesn't have enough to get gas for the car. Yea, sometimes it seems unfair that she's taking your money, but unless she's addicted to something, then its probably for a good cause.

It is called stealing but your mom should not of beat you up. That's not right. :)

Taking something from someone else without their permission is stealing. No matter who you steal from. Would you think it acceptable if your mother drained your bank account to "buy a little something for herself," claiming she had the right because you are her flesh and blood? No, of course you wouldn't.

However, as others have said, that does not give her the right to use physical violence against you. She does, however, have every right to prosecute you under the law. Just keep that in mind. I think you need to sit down with your mother and sort out some issues in your relationship, if stealing and physical violence are a common part of it.

Taking something that doesn't belong to you, even if it is from family, is stealing. At your age you could even be prosecuted for it.

On the flip side it is not acceptable for a family member to beat you up either and you could have her arrested for assault It sounds you like you are both in a very unhealthy relationship.

I think you need to learn a lot about respect. Not only for others property but also for yourself.