Why would he stop having sex with her?

He's got another girl on the side.

He has his sugar mama who gives him the rent, the food, and the permission to go out at night.

Then he has the girl that he sees outside of the home, and this is where he is getting his sexual release.

*Note* guys can last as long as they have to.but a guy will normally have wet dreams after 2 weeks of no sexual release. plus the longer that a guy has gone without it, the more he wants it. A guys sex drive will increase tremendously after the initation of a relationship and last for at least 2 years, and then slowly decrease to a normal male sex drive after that.

This is why he has to have a girl on the side. he wants all of the sex, but at the same time, he doesn't think that it is possible to have a long term relationship with all of the sex. so he has his girl at home whom he wants (or says he wants) to have a long term relationship with, and he keeps the sex at a minimum.

Either he's spanking it and not telling, or he has a girl on the side.sorry for your friend.

I agree with what Anonymous has to say. Also guys, unless they haven't hit puberty, absolutely can not go with out any form of sex or ejaculation for a month. If they can go for a month then they have a huge amount of control. Considering your mind and body craves what is has been missing for so long.

Get out of this one and fast. He's milking you for what your worth. Why on earth are you with this guy? If it's for sex, I'm sure there's other men more deserving of it.

The fact that he has some drinking problems might become a problem. If anything you're helping him feed his habit of drinking by supporting him. He's a grown man so he should be footing half of the rent for real! girl, you crazy if you stay with this dude. if he's going a lot to 'drink' and doesn't come home till the next day I'm sure he's doing more than just drinking.

the fact that you want sex and he's holding out on you.he knows your weak spot and that's BAD NEWS! he's only going to use this against you by trying to come up with exchanges and compromise with you like if he has sex with you then you have to do something for him in return. what is this, a transaction? that's not how a real relationship should be. if anything, he should be greeting you at the door when you get home from work and have dinner ready.

I say kick this guy to the curb. NO guy this age just 'loses' their sex drive unless he's already exhausted from something else. sorry to say it but he doesn't deserve you. you should look elsewhere and forget him!

Well, it kinda sounds like he's using her from the fact that she supports him. And It seems that he's trying to keep the relationship "together" but it still sounds like he's only interested in being supported (financially, etc.) and nothing else. I think she should get rid of the guy, or at least sit down and have a talk with him. Because if she does want sex, then she should at least talk to him about it because a relationship is a give and take thing; both parties have to be involve. He could also possibly (maybe) be questioning his sexuality. Though, I'm not sure; I've never heard of a situation quite like this one. Just tell her to talk to him (a serious, undivided attention talk). Hope this helped!