I'm just trying to figure some things out, Me and a guy I care so much about have been friends for going on 4 years now, we have never actually dated, but we do have a past. I know he cares about me, and he always says that which ever guy I end up with, he will be the luckiest guy in the world, but in true honesty, I wish it was him. I would do anything in the world for this guy (which is stupid, but I can't help myself), so we stopped talking for about 6 months, I just needed some time to think and figure out what I wanted in life, and within those 6 months, he found a new girl, We tried to be friends but the passion between us was so strong, that I would feel like I was doing something wrong when we would hang out, so we lost contact, well up until recently we started talking again, him and that girl had broken up, and we started talking about how we wanted our future to be and if we could see each other in it, well we talked and hung out for weeks straight, and then I get a text message on the day after father's day (June 16, 2008) from him, saying that his ex girlfriend was in a bad motorcycle accident on father's day, she was on life support and it's not looking good. By this time I don't know what to think, I'm sad, angry, depressed, a lot of emotions rolling into one. Yeah, I was sad for what happened, I don't wish an accident or anything bad on anyone or anything, but it just seems like when it's starting to go good, something always happens and I got to start right back at the beginning again. I know all I can do is be there for him and help him get through this but I feel like, everything is put on hold now. I'm not trying to sound selfish by any means, but it's not fair for me to sit around and wait on someone, who is sitting around waiting on his ex girlfriend to get out of a coma. He always tells me, that he loves me, and he wouldn't know what to do without me, but I just don't know what to think anymore, can someone help me and try to give some advice on what to do in this situation?
Just be there for him,what ever happen!if his your destiny no one can change that.just pray for her ex girlfriend situation & maybe GOD have something for you more than you expected.GOODLUCK!
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