Do you ever get over your first big crush?

My first real crush was a girl from 7th grade who I never got the guts to tell her how I felt because all my guy friends didn't like her and said all these bad things about her. She was in 2 of my 6 classes and honestly I was so infatuated with her that the thought of seeing her in class everyday was what kept me from skipping school. Her name was Faith Bennett. It doesn't matter now I suppose because we ended up moving away from there at the end of the school year, but I often wonder whether things would be different for me now if I had gotten up the guts to approach my 7th grade crush. Maybe that little insignificant moment would have drastically changed my life like in the movie Mr. Destiny. Maybe I would be more comfortable with girls now if I had just ignored my friends then and went for her.

No.

Its like cancer, it goes into remission but it never goes away completely. Not a happy example but the closest to what its really like. I got over mine to the point where I can be friendly and civil around them but it one of my crushes was to come around asking me to do something, it would be hard to say no. mostly I think we just don't see them again.

Last time I met my first highschool crush I got a reminiscence of my passion for her. The feelings really fade but I still remember how it felt, I was somehow confused, when got the note, that she had married someone. So, I say, we don't get over completely, unless we spend much time involved in romantic relationship with our crush of the past, or find find that special one and stop caring about the past

I never got over my first crush. My first one was in middle school. He was soooo cute. If I saw him gain, I'd probably be really flustered.

me personally, yes, because honestly I have no idea why I was into these loserish overweight type guys when I was at that age where I started to like guys. but now I look back on it and I now think what the hell was I thinking lol. so yea I am totally over my first boyfriend. trust me. I survived the heartbreak of him now wanting to play WoW for the rest of his life lol.

well, sounds so much like me. I had a terrible crush on my mom's collegue's son when in my high school, its been 10 years now, and I still think of him DAILY, not a single day passed since I saw him when I did not think of him. Of course, now I don't have that intense hormonal rush when I think of him, but I'm sure the fire is not very hard rekindle, only if he reciprocates back and talks those oh-so-sweet tings with me. The reason that he did not reciprocate my feelings for him made me move past him, I did not want anymore of my emotional investment on hm in vain. but yeah, I think of him everyday, to this day.