I feel like maybe I'm scared that it's not going to work out so I break up with them before we can even discuss our problems together or before I get dumped on. Or I just know from the beginning that I didn't like that person so I ended it with bc I wasn't feeling it. That's why I usually break up with someone.
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I had two girls dump me (out of 28 girlfriends) the rest it was mutual or I initiated it. Not for the reason you give but generally because they wanted the relationship to progress towards marriage and I'd decided I wasn't going to marry them (I went into it with an open mind but decided after I got to know them better) the and so didn't want to waste their time.
Of the two who dumped me one did if for a much better looking guy. He was like male underwear model good looking. She tried to get back with me later. Guess looks aren't all that. The other one I never did know why, she just cut me off. With her it was just a sexual relationship, she wasn't aiming at marriage.
I've always been the one breaking up, and I've been in 5 relationships. In my case I just lost feelings and saw nothing to fight for, so the best decision was to leave.
You don't have to worry, it's better to break up than stay with someone you don't see a good future just because you didn't wanna break up.
You've yet to meet the right guy.
Well its not about who breaks up with who or how
It's all about the why
Don't worry about it just know that sometimes you have to trust your gutt