My ex changed for the worse too he drinks now actually and it just worried me so much. I couldn't sleep at night at all I always had bad dreams of him drinking and dying and stuff and I just couldn't take it. I couldn't agree with you less seems like you and I had similar relationships because I did everything I could for my ex I loved him, supported him, everything and he just changed right out of the blue. Plus I was always the one trying he didn't do a single thing in the relationship besides make up excuses of course. I then woke up one day and I was just like I had enough of the way he treated me how he doesn't deserve me. You didn't do anything wrong he must be blind by your beauty or by not wanting to effort in your relationship and fix the problems. That's how I felt when my ex broke up me that I had done something wrong but he was the one that begged for me to come back. Don't blame it on yourself its his loss not yourself there's nothing wrong with you. If he can't respect you in public then he doesn't deserve you in private. Learn the difference between what you are getting out of a relationship and what you truly deserve. Just to let you know you aren't alone my ex is now an alcoholic I wish he never started drinking but now that he and I are in high school there's nothing I can do. He cut all ties with me a couple of months ago so now we don't say anything or talk to each or anything whatsoever. My ex broke up with me like right out of the blue I didn't see it coming either until I asked him wait r u breaking up with me and he said yes and I tried to hold in my tears but I couldn't. I tugged onto his arm before he was about to go but he was like I gotta get back to my friends so yeah he just left me in tears. I wanted to keep going with him but he isn't ready for a committed full time relationship if he can't even treat me right. I didn't really ask for a lot from him either just to put in effort and do his part and stop letting me do all the work.
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Sounds like he checked out. He probably just got tired of you or something. I'm not saying you're bad or that it was your fault it just happens sometimes. Either that or he was cheating on you and he would rather just be with the other person because it was easier than to be with you. Props to you for putting 110 percent in the relationship though, not many girls like that anymore. Just have fun, enjoy life and who knows maybe you'll meet a great guy soon that appreciates you as much as you appreciated this wackjob.
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Give him some space live your life as if nothing Is wrong once he realizes what he had Lost he will try to get you back but you need to ask yourself are you better off without him?
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