Instead of telling him off I expressed my happiness for him, and said to go for it. Despite his strong feeling for her he seemed uncertain. Crushes for years I learned are not good in the long run. And told him if he really does like her to take his time, to make sure it works.
He then said that he hopes if he brings her around that I don't freak out. I was calm and said I would never do that and want him to be happy, and not to worry about me. I was very supportive. I don't want him to think that this is ruining me. I am trying to move on, but its hard when you love someone.
He dated someone for 2 years and one of his exes broke up with him. then moved onto me. and now her days after our break up.
As he came back to the area I was sitting in he playfully messed up my hair. Strange huh? I noticed he has been very friendly with me and my friends, and his friends very nice to me. I am confused. I never thought we would break up.
No he has not been initiating contact with me.only when we see each other around he does.
Do you think he may really have love for this girl? or is it a disaster waiting to happen?
I am very confident these days and some girls at the bar approached me saying that I have this amazing glow and asked how I am so confident. and I told them how. I am different after the break up. and he broke up with me because of a few issues I was having.such as not job. living at home. being stressed out constantly. I changed and feeel GREAT.
i just can't believe this girl walks into his life and then he decides to go for her. I am not mad. Just confused and hurt. Any advice will help. Thank you!
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