Girls: if you had a boyfriend with a dangerous job and he got hurt would you stay with him?

[Anonymous]

if you had a boyfriend with a dangerous job and he got hurt would you stay with him even if he wasn't able to have sex with you anymore ? I know a guy who got hurt well on the job and his wife left him to me that makes us all look bad what's your thoughts

[toulouse]

us? no. her? yes.

were not one gigantic, amorphous blob. we are billions.

no, I would not leave him, for that.

[moonglow]

I wouldn't have left him for that.

But just because she did that doesn't mean that all of us would do that.

[Asker]

I no as I said it makes the rest of us look bad when one girl does something like this

[moonglow]

Maybe but guys have to understand that not all girls are like that. I hate when guys judge all of us just because of a few who do wrong.

[Asker]

Me to

[Anonymous]

I am not surprised by that.

[Asker]

My boyfriend also has a dangerous job risks his life daily and I wouldn't ever leave him 4 this

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing has happened yet (hopefully nothing will). It's hard to take your word for it.

[Asker]

Well you don't have to take my word for it because you don't no

Me lol but I know myself and I know I wouldn't do that

[Opinion Owner]

But how would you really know until something happens?

The "stand by your man" days are over. I mean, we're talking about the gender that initiate 2/3 of all divorces, and it is usually over financial problems or that they simply fell out of love. Financial problems will probably occur if your boyfriend/husband became paralyzed and you could fall out of love because you want an able bodied person or maybe stay with him but cheat.

You may very well be the type of girl that will stick with your

[Opinion Owner]

partner through thick and thin, but let's be honest here: the track record isn't that great.

[Asker]

Your right on some points but no I am the stand by your man type of girl yes your right that hardly next to never happens anymore but your talking to a girl who would stay by his side no matter what because that's the type of girl I am I strongly believe that if you say marriage vows mean them or don't get married but that's just me what you choose to believe is up to you and what other girls do is up to them

[Opinion Owner]

Sure, it's up to them what they want to do, but their actions make you want to keep women in general at arms length. Why let them closer when they'll turn your back on you?

If you really are the very loyal and faithful type, I envy the guy you're with. Good luck in your relationship.

[Asker]

Thanks and yes he is a lucky man and he is well aware of this :-)

[Anonymous]

Wow, I'd expect them not to just for that...