Why do some guys have "side chicks" when they're in a relationship?

If they flirt with and show an interest in other girls then they obviously don't respect their relationship, so what's the point of being in one?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Same can be applied to women as well though. But to answer you question, maybe because they aren't really into the whole "committed" part of a common relationship and, for example, see it just as more stable route for getting sex. But then again, just flirting with another person doesn't make that person a side anything and shows of interest is a rather vague statement. I mean someone might think one action is a show of interest and another might not.

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What Guys Said 5

  • The point is, where they draw the line. If you flirt in a joking way but do not start touching the girl, okay...

    But if your guy is goint TOO far with other girls you should confront him. Honesty and dedication to each other is everything in a relationship. If he plays games with you, he should admit his mistake and learn from it or lose his girl :-)

    I'll post you a friendship request, feel free to accept. I'm from Belgium.

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  • Because today's "relationships" do nothing for men, so we don't value it as highly as in yesteryears.

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  • Same reason girls have 'side guys' during relationships. Right now I seem to be the 'side guy' in a relationship and from my observations its because she seems to be bored of her current guy. When it comes down to it is probably for fun, regardless of if its just playful flirting or not.

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    • It used to really upset me when a guy assumed I would be his side chick. Does it bother you that you're the side guy?

    • strangely no it doesn't. It might be because I'm confident that if I wanted her for myself I could have her.

  • 1. They're greedy

    2. They're selfish

    3. They're disrespectful

    4. They have no interest in solving their problems when the relationship gets tough

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What Girls Said 7

  • Men usually have side chicks so that in case their girlfriend or "main chick" breaks up with them, they can just run to their side chicks for whatever they need or want (like sex) until their " main chick" takes them back. They're basically just using the side chick as a back up plan .And some men have side chicks simply because they are greedy and don't know how to be faithful to one woman.

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  • because a lot of guys are dirty pigs

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  • Selfish as it sounds, its sometimes because their other half is cheating on them. Their insecurity level goes down because they don't feel good enough, so they have to find someone else to get the esteem back up..

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  • Because men can never be faithful. If you have a side chick you need to leave whatever relationship you're in because you obviously don't care about your significant others feelings.

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  • I find that highly disrespectful

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