Dishonest People That Cannot Be Trusted and are Not Loyal
Nobody wants to date a person they cannot trust. This has got to be one of the biggest turn offs there is because any good relationship needs both the man and the woman to be honest, trustworthy and loyal. This has got to be the single most important thing for a healthy relationship between a man and a woman.
Both men and women hate sexist people. This means that if your a man and generalize all women with comments such as "All women are bitches" or you are a woman and generalize all men with comments such as "All men are pigs" the other gender will be massively turned off you. In this case it is only the sexist persons fault.
People do not want to hear racism or even know racist people. Even if the person you want to date is not of the race you are judging it is still a turn off because it reflects a major flaw in your personality. Most people have no tolerance for racist people.
Bitter men are a complete deal breaker for women and bitter women are a complete deal breaker for men. Being bitter makes the other person think, "Oh gosh what am I getting myself into". People want to be around happy people not people that drain their energy. This therefore means being bitter is a total deal breaker.
Rude, nasty and mean people
Most men and women have been treated badly at some point in their life by someone of the opposite gender. Acting in a rude, nasty or mean way in the dating world is not tolerated and a total deal breaker. People that behave in this way end up single with no one wanting to date them.
People that think to highly of themselves
It is good to respect yourself but when a person thinks they are better than anyone else they will drive people away. This is because people also know the type of poor behavior that comes with someone that thinks to highly of themselves.
People that care only about materialistic things
This is also a major turn off. If someone thinks you are only dating them because of the car they drive or how many dollars they have in the bank they will keep their distance from you. Relationships should be about love and not about the number of dollars in the bank. A healthy relationship does not revolve around materialistic things.
These are the things you should avoid being if your a man wanting to attract women or a woman wanting to attract men and want to have a loving relationship like in the pictures below.