Say No To Boring Dates: Is no one adventurous anymore? (Page 2)
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I love hiking. There's something about it that really brings people closer together :)
I also love picnics.
My guy and I plan to go on a camping trip some time. We're thinking next spring. It'd be so exciting!
Ohh that sounds like fun I can't wait to go camping in March although I'm going with friends :) I hope you and your guy have fun!
Yes I've donde camping and hiking and rock cimbing. I never take dates to the movies.
Sometimes I like to just fill my tank of gas and just drive for hours talking and we stop at every cool place we see or at any gas station/minimart for some snacks and drinks.
For me anything is fine with the right company even sitting on your ass can be fun
I dont have an idea date
Thanks for the response I'll definitely try the ride around date lol :)
its actually fun I tend to visit historical places and such
Ohh that sounds fun I'm always up to visit historical sights I'm actually going on a trip to South Korea this summer with a few friends. I'm interested in seeing what historical sights they have. Do you have any favorite historical places that you've visited?
I live in puerto rico so we here have the luminecent bay ( a bay that glows blue at night time) El yunke forrest very huuuge forrrest) we also have the dwarf forrest (tiny threes like bonsai grow there) el morro castle (casttle from the colonial era with canons and shit)
we also got a very old like 1920s fire, men house as a museum. We also got a ton of typical food places there's a road where people claim to see aliens but I've never seen any go figure
Ohh the lake sounds magnificent I definitely have to visit there lol Thanks for your response! P. S I've seen an alien before :)
I want to see aliens... damn it I hate you. We can't be friends anymore *pouts*
But I thought we were best friends :( I really thought we had something 😓
are you gonna show me the aliens?
Of course I will I have photographic evidence and everything :) But I'll only send them if you say sorry.
I"M SOWWWWWWWWYYYYYYYY
I accept your apology and I'll be sure to message you the pictures lol :)
if you're sick of the 'same old same old' dates, then you prob are just going on dates with new guys every other day.
a date, specially a first date, is supposed to get to know the person!!!
i would love to do all of those things IF the girl and i get along together, otherwise, what would be the point?
First of all I'm not going on dates with people I've just met anyone I go on a date with I've known for a while so no I don't go on dates with a new guy everyday. Also for the last time these are not necessarily FIRST date ideas. These are any time date ideas I just don't know how to update the post to say that. This is a myTake meaning my opinion I didn't say anyone has to use these date ideas I'm just giving some good ones. Also I know everyone I go out on a date with very well. I've got along with all of my dates and we have enjoyed each other's company as well as my ex boyfriends. Some of this people I am still friends with today. The point I'm making is that it doesn't have to be a movie and dinner EVERY TIME! If I'm in a relationship with someone or if I have been dating them for awhile then I don't want to always watch a movie or go the mall. I'm sorry if this comes off as aggressive but I'm tired of repeating myself. Thanks for the response btw! :)
lol its all good.
yeah you should have maybe explained it a bit better.
these are def fun things to do, just not if you dont know the person well
all good:D
Yeah I'm sorry I was so aggressive lol but I've been repeating myself all day I'm glad we're good. I've been trying to update the post to say this but I don't know how to do it :)
I took a girl on a date doing lazer tag once, it was a disaster lol, she hated it.
What? Why did she hate it lol 😱
I know right?~
I think she thought it was to "immature" or "juvenile" can't recall her exact words. I was about 23 at the time if I remember correctly. Needless to say we were mutually uninterested in each other, I require my partner to like having fun lol.
Wow that's crazy at that age I would think you would still enjoy having fun. Heck my grandma and her grandchildren including me went for a paintball war about two years ago lol. I don't think it's juvenile most couples enjoy competitive sports :)
yeah I agree, it's just a fun activity to spend a little time on, has nothing to do with your maturity level. Some people are just strange.
You got that right. Thanks for your response! 😁
No, the date was a success. You weeded her out in time, she was clearly incompatible with the values you represent.
@Mesonfielde agreed good point. I just remember at the time feeling like it was a failure, now though I would see it as a success, as you say.
Move to Texas, a lot of that is how we like to relax.
Are you being serious?
Well that along with guns mudding and cooking meat that isn't beef as if it were beef
@Bowshots86 Sounds interesting I live in Georgia but I have relatives there although they never do anything fun when I visit :(
I was being serious.
Why do you have to cook certain meats certain ways, we... apply heat... to the meat... and then eat. Where's the bad when it tastes dang good? XD
Yeah I've done a few on there too. I really enjoy off-roading though.
If you don't mind me asking what's off-roading?
But there's always a big line for Potato Chip Rock...
That's a thing?
It's the first picture, near where I live in San Diego.
Sounds interesting I shall look into it. Thanks for the response :)
The first date is to get to know the other person i guess? So the most appropriate is dinner so the two people can talk , of u play u dont have much time to talk. No?
These don't have to necessarily be the first date. I don't go on dates with guys before I've talked to them for a while so it doesn't matter if we go have fun. Besides you can get along over dinner but you can have very different personalities outside of dinner. Maybe one person doesn't view fun or humor the same then what. Relationships should include fun too! Thanks for the response though! :)
Oh well then i agree with u , those dates sound more fun i just thought about the first date lol
Yeah lol :)
Hiking dates are my favorite kind of dates!
I love hiking lol there's nothing better than going on a hike with your SO or potential SO. :) I think it's a great bonding experience you can see how well you can work with each other!
Oh definitely! I discovered just how adventerous my boyfriend was when we started hiking together. We turn into mountain goats! 🐐
lmao mountain goats :)
Loooooove it and totally agree!^^
Thanks for the response. :) I'm glad you like it!
It looks fun to me :D
Thanks for the response! :)
Bullshit.
If we don't strike it off, the LAST thing I want to do is something that not only requires a huge time commitment and inflexibility of ending the date early, but something that is expensive or dangerous -- she hasn't earned that kind of trust and commitment.
Bullshit.
If that's what women "require" these days, no wonder they're all fucking single.
I don't understand why you are being so rude and aggressive in your comment but it's really unnecessary. Also this isn't what women require these are just date ideas and in no way did my post say these were FIRST date ideas. Do people not read anymore? Anyways do what you want with the date ideas and when you feel is the right time to do them if you decide to on them. All woman aren't freaking single either geez. No one is forcing you to use these date ideas because they are just IDEAS!!! I personally like going on dates like this and once we've been dating for awhile or are in a relationship I haven't had problem with them saying no to these kinds of dates. The only reason why I made this post was to give people ideas so if everyone could stop being so aggressive that would be nice. Anyways thanks for the response -_-
I love drunk board game nights.
Ohh I forgot to add board games lol I enjoy those as well although I don't know about drunk board game nights haha :)
I didn't think women liked fun things.
Where do you get your facts from? lol
Most women I've talked to don't seem all that fun, I guess. There are about five women I've met in my life whom I can call fun.
Wow that sucks I would think at your age that you'd see plenty of fun women around. I hope you find your fun lady :) Thanks for the response!
Writer: Says she is sick of boring dates over and over again
Writer's Age: 17
Years of dating experience (assuming she is a typical female): 1-2
Consensus: Ignore Take and move on.
Why does my age matter lol I'm also providing great date ideas that any age couple can use.
How bout 4 wheeling... yeehaw!
What, you think I can afford this junk?
No one says the guy has to pay lol I pay for dates as well as go dutch. Then again a lot of this stuff is very inexpensive in my area and I have a pretty nice job. Buying some food for a picnic and going to the park sounds inexpensive to me. :) Thanks for the opinion!
say no to non-attractive guys
What do you mean?
Lol ignore this
@noneoftheabove okie dokie :)
You're paying
I wouldn't mind paying for it I do have a job after all lol :) Most of these dates are inexpensive though at least in my area they are.
I wouldn't spend my money on you, even if you didn't have a job.
I'm not even talking about going on a date with you idiot lmao and that's great I don't want some immature asshole spending his money on me anyways. Do you have any money to spend because honestly the only thing it looks like you're spending is your TIME being a troll. Please don't come on my post with the negativity it's childish. Please do grow up :)
None of those are fun for guys if she's not nude.