Get Your Freedom, Ladies: Why You Should Date Multiple Men at Once (Page 2)
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Exactly why guys shouldn't pay for dates. While you are taking a girl out she is already seeing like 4 other guys on the side.
I'm for dating multiple people (guys and girls), but i'm not for paying for the whole date unless she isn't working or you make WAY more money than she does.
In the last pic, the guy with the white shirt has dyed blond hair, what a brah. :-P
Ok back to the topic. For both guys and gals, I FULLY recommend dating multiple guys at once. in my opinion it an unspoken fact in the dating world (whether one believes it or not), that if two people dating don't have the monogamous/exclusive talk, to presume the other person is also dating other people as well.
Any women who dates multiple guys at a time in my opinion is a women I wouldn't put any efforts in nor even consider dating her... Hey loyalty and attitude of very important to me and I won't date a lose charactered women like that...
Why should any man put any effort in this kinda women when you are not even loyal? Which is the basic quality you needed to be considered as a dating material? Why even date? You can sleep around without dating...
In other words if she wants to come with me on a second or third date she had to be loyal and not see anyone else from the start... Other I am finding someone who will...
I won't settle for less
Good for you. Hope it works out for you cuz if I were one of those guys, I'd drop that relationship fast. Loyalty is #1 for me
Dating is not the same as a relationship
Not to you
If you read you would know my definition
I did read and totally understand. But that definition is not universal
So I'm just going to ask how many dates would you go on be4 you have sex or just no sex at all ever also and when you say that if a guy asks you out you would go out with him but later if another kind of guy asks you out you would also say yes right? And I mean there is nothing wrong with keeping your opinions open and everything but just member that there might be two guys who like you or you might have to pick between one of them wouldn't that be hard for you to-do maybe perhaps
I took a long break from dating. So if a guy asked me out on a date I would agree. When I am dating I am still single. So yes if another guy ask me on a date I will go on a date with him too
Now with that there said... what do you think that's considered? Asker
@ikissestheskyonce - That makes you a cheater... If you go out with another guy...
The slutty promiscuous women do that...
No decent women would do that
I won't date more than 1 man because I am not a slut.
Finally someone with some morals
How rare these days , although i know there still is good women out there. 😊
Thanks everyone for upvotes and comments
I've been dating multiple men since I was a teenager. I've always been up front with guys and let them know I was seeing others too and not looking for an exclusive relationship.
well at least you are honest.
Let me guess, you're also expecting all those men to pay for you "since you're not exclusive yet."
This is why guys shouldn't pay for anything. At least not until you are actually in a relationship. You take a girl out and pay for the date and she's doing the same thing with 8 other guys.
You said "if he's not putting effort into the relationship, why should you stay loyal." Uhhhh, why not just break up with him? That makes no sense to stay in a relationship you don't want just so you can date multiple men. smh
I thought that was dating period men or women. You date someone to see if they're worth getting into a relationship with. It's just this generation our mindset is different than the one before us it's a good thing and a bad thing in my opinion
Its a bitch move
Like what would female think if a guy did this they would say asshole
Guys already do this
Nah sweety i noticed lately men take flirting and datung stage ore seriously than women they are loyal and even think only about her.
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Funny how women try threading us men by being a slut !! LMAO. Still LMAO
Threatening *
I do not sleep around
Learn to read
Asker... If you knew how to read between the lines , you would relize I'm NOT directing this statement towards you at all. Others in general
Asker... who's paying for all these dates your going on... you or him. ?
If you're "talking" to multiple men while not in a relationship, then most likely you're not loyal to 1 person. Skip.
Dude you're ridiculous. If she isn't committed to said person, then why should she act like she is? Makes no sense.
Yeah I dated a girl like that and lost her number when I found out.
You can't get mad if you are not in a relationship with her
I wasn't mad I just knew she wasn't a good long term prospect, alright for a few booty calls but I wanted something more.
Do whatever you want, just be honest about it.
I don't care if I'm going out with someone that's seeing others as long as they don't bullshit me about it.
so freedom equals immorality and hurting men? women are smarter than that... .
If a man does not want to commit to a girl and she keeps her options open by talking to other men, how is that hurting the men who do not want to commit?
Maybe that's why the man won't commit in the first place , maybe he already knows your list of other guys exist !! And how come the big secret ?
I wonder why are you still single... Let me take a wild guess!
Or you could just not date dicks...
I believe i addressed that
Not that I saw...
I think I'll just stick to doing it the old fashioned way.
You mean sticking to by not reading before typing? In that case you are a doing a great job
Relax, she's right and you know it. Honestly, did you maybe invest all your time and energy in one guy and something happened and you really liked the guy but? Do you think you'll ever be happy doing this? How will you know you have actually feelings for one person? It's like porn, you'll just keep pushing for something different while ignoring the good things in front of you.
How do you think the guys will feel? They'll be asking "does she actually love me? Or is she just using me."
As a suggestion, I highly suggest you not to do this as itll only leave you feeling empty. Take your time, find a decent guy you like, and throw a little cliffhanger out for him. I think you're a nice girl who got shacked :/ , take the high road and not let it get to your head. 😎
In middle school and high school, doing the "dating multiple ppl" method is social suicide if both of the people said person is dating are at the same school.
But in the adult world when there is WAY less unplanned interaction to meet new people, the multiple-person-dating method is way more efficient 8-)
@Prof_Don
It's called talking to girls without trying to bone them. You can talk to girls without being in a relationship with them... You can have as many friends as you like without being an asshole. If you think you like them break up with your current girlfriend and then you don't have to be a dick... If you feel like you need to be in a relationship with a bunch of girls NONE of them are the right one.
Dating is not a relationship. A relationship requires a monogamous commitment, dating does not.
In the courting process, dating is step 1, a relationship is step 2.
If you want to be a cheater go ahead. But saying you need to be a dick to find your true love is BS. And you shouldn't be basing your love life of efficiency.
lol how is dating multiple people cheating? There is no commitment there, so there is no commitment to break, which means cheating is not possible. :-D
Keep in mind that I am not deceitful at all. I don't tell these girls that i'm only seeing her... because that would be a lie. Total honesty. If she asked me if I was seeing other people, I would say yes.
You're romantically involved with other people without telling them... How is that not cheating?
Should've been swallowed.
Lmaoo