So im a 17 year old guy, and never had a gf. Im not very confident, sure im a social person, but when it comes to asking a girl out, im too scared to. Part of it, is i have been rejected before, and being 5'5 doesn't help at all, with my confidence level, plus i tend to not be a leader. But i would truly care about my girlfriend and i would be loyal to her and i would truly love and respect her. My worst nightmare in life would be never finding someone to spend my life with, and be forever alone. I could NEVER live like that. So my question is, girls would u ever date me, or do i sound like just a loser?
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i say work on your confidence and that would help with attracting girls. I wouldn't mind dating someone 5'5 because at 17 you may not be fully done growing and secondly as long as you are taller than me, we should be good. im 5'2. i prefer taller guys but height is not the ultimate deciding factor. if you approach girls, just make sure you do it genuinly and confidently. dont sell yourself short (no pun intended). if i can feel you are uncomfortable with yourself, thats not gonna help me to be comfortable. and also, you are only 17, you have plenty of time to date and find the love of your life. at this point, just focus on you, your life and your personal development. the right one will eventually come around. dont put so much pressure on yourself or the person you are trying to approach. girls can sense tension. just play it cool both in and out of a relationship and have confidence. best of luck.1