Why do white men and black men avoid black/mixed women?

I was just wondering about why they do


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I've lost my virginity to a black girl so I don't avoid them, but I also don't approach them. Most black/mixed girls I've met aren't into white guys. So, most white guys won't even bother approaching a black woman knowing this. If a black/mixed woman wants to date a white guy, then she should approach.

    I also think it's important to note that most white guys aren't into girls (of any race) that speak with ebonics. I don't think most black/mixed women talk like this, but enough of them do to create a stereotype, and this stereotype can prevent a guy from approaching black/mixed women.

    So, I don't avoid, I just never bother approaching because I figure if a black/mixed girl wants to be with me she will approach me. If I were to avoid black/mixed girls then that would mean I would run away if she were to approach me, but I welcome the approach. I've dated 4 black girls, 2 white girls and 1 Asian girl... The Asian and black girls all approached me and I had to approach the white girls... even when they knew that I liked them.

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What Guys Said 8

  • they do avoid them? I don't know if that is true across the board. some people may have preferences and not prefer mixed race people but I don't think it is true at all that white and black men avoid mixed race women

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  • We don't avoid them, but we don't approach them en mass, either. Mainly because MOST, keyword: MOST black women don't find white or white-ish guys attractive. There's no point in putting a ton of effort in approaching when you are very disadvantaged from the start. That's honestly why.

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  • I generally prefer black and mixed girls :D

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  • I'm white and I don't avoid black or mixed women. I actually prefer mixed, lol.

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  • I never avoid them.. if anything I feel avoid ha.

    People tend to generalize mixed/black women today though especially when it comes to their personality and attitudes towards the male population.

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  • I like mixed race girls of all different races, though I have a thing for half-white, half-black girls but none of those girls are interested in me.

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  • I don't do that. Where they do that at?

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  • White guys know that black women aren't into them. Black guys chase after the those white women trophies.

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    • Im mixed and im into white guys, your argument is invalid.

    • Oh sorry. I didn't realize I had to account for every single person. Let me fix it.
      Most white guys know that most black women aren't into them.

    • There ya go.

What Girls Said 5

  • I'm a mixed girl that tends to be attracted to white guys. After reading this I feel like I'm at such a disadvantage. I'm a very shy person so I'd almost never approach a guy. Usually only black guys approach me. Don't get me wrong, I like many different ethnicities but after reading this I think I may need to gain some confidence to ever date a white guy.

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  • Well I'm mixed, I doubt thats why men avoid me.

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  • Where did you get that idea?

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  • I'm mixed and they don't avoid me.

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  • I am a mixed women and tend to find white and black men attractive but i tend to fall more towards mixed or white guys. The reason I never really approach white guys because i feel like they think that we are all wild, hot blooded, and ghetto. I am nothing like that and feel that most black or mixed women feel this way. So I believe the man should approach the girl at least in these sort of cases.

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