Hi so thanks for checking this out for me :) so I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and at the start things were like really good, he was chasing me hard, really awesome dates, really chatty all day and telling me he wanted to be exclusive and that I was girlfriend material, and I loved it, not going to lie! But lately things seem to have cooled way down... like I barely hear from him, even though he's on Facebook pretty much all day, and we were supposed to see each other this evening but he asked to reschedule because he was too tired (out last night for Halloween and the surfing today) and I just feel like he's losing interest and I don't really understand why? I also think maybe there's someone else, with the whole being on Facebook thing all the time, gives me the impression he's chatting to someone else and that he's putting in minimal effort to keep me around, and I was wondering what you guys would advise i do? I'm seeing him tomorrow so I was gona may be bring it up with him then... just kind of ask, if something is up because he seems off... does that seem like a good idea? I duno, think I would just rather know what's going on...
Is he messing me around? Guys help especially appreciated :)?
What Guys Said 2
I am not being judgemental. But did you ever think that he might be going after someone else because of you? You said that he was chasing you hard and expressed the desire to be exclusive. But you said nothing of your behaviour. How warm were you? Were you on the same page as he? Were you ever initiating chats? If you were instead playing hard to get and being a bit cold.. He just thought that you were a waste of time and/or energy and/or money and thought about moving on. Always think about every thing my dear. All good things end, including attraction.0
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What Girls Said 1
you seem like someone that can give out great advice!
I have a question; www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1177231-huge-crush-on-my-boss-advise-needed
could you maybe give me some advice?
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