Blood is thicker than water. At this point you are water, remember if you push too hard you will lose him. Why are you making a big deal over a dang cake? You just want to be right and be told what you want to hear. Family is family for life, remember that, before you demand your fiance before his family, before y'all have even said "I Do". If his family hates you changes are he will never marry you, if he does y'all will be divorced within 2 years.
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To me, I make them all sit down in a room and deal with the issue. Like they at least need to be civil, at least for my sake because they all love me right? So whoever can't just be civil can go. They don't have to love each other or be BFFs but adults need to learn to be civil around people they don't like, if they can't they aren't right in the head.
I have just posted the same dilemma. loool
I obviously agree with you ☺
Fiance.
This is the person that you are going to spend you life with and create a new family with.
That doesn't mean that the rest of your family becomes less important but you have to prioritise your own castle. If you don't prioritise your partner, then you aren't ready to be married.
I'd say its an even split until you get married, then its spouse.
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I beleive family comes first. Because what happens when the finance leaves and cheats like the man he is? You go back to your family.
Whoever is childish , obstinate, n easy to annoy should be taken into care first..
Not until he's your husband.
Me. I always come first, then my family.
you aren't married yet though!
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