My boyfriend collects anime figures and it bothers me anyone else have this problem? (Page 2)
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Aha, I read this earlier didn't realize it was you.
That stuff is like p*rn for guys into any me, otakus and the like. Weird thing is, apparently flesh and bone wins over p*rn . Though these are cartoon figures, I have a couple of cousins and a female friend heavily into this and there's no substitutes for their super skinny, huge purple eyed, green haired "porn stars".
Well... You either accept it or you dont. It's part of his personality and life. If it does affects you ask him to make a choice but no one should have rights to somehow blame someone for having specific hobbies.
I can understand this, it is basically p*rn he can put in plan site. I see nothing wrong with his taste but it would bother me if my gf had pictures or dolls of hot men all over the place.
LOL, what a weirdo. Dont look through his computer. Its probably full of hentai bondage P*rnography .
My GF has a pretty serious obsession with her two cats (well not really), does it bother me? No, not in the slightest.
I think you've just got to accept that's what he likes, and either move on with the relationship, or break up with him.
Amazes me that losers like that are actually capable of finding women dumb enough to be with them. I must be doing something wrong, or maybe I'm just living in the wrong state!
for most problems on this site, the first step is: TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.
come back after you've done that and we can discuss things.
For Pete's sake I would have asked for some help if I didn't already discuss it with him it's kind of last resort to turn to the internet so don't assume
First off, I hope you asked him why & for what purpose he has them before taking any other opinions, especially off the internet. Also, to what ValentinaPR said, there`s no way dolls would be a replacement of you, that`s silly. That is unless he has very, VERY severe psychological issues, in which case you should get him to a professional immediately.
I wouldn't say they're a replacement either, but they could be a supplement, which is still hurtful to her. I agree she has to talk to him and figure out what's going on tho.
That's pretty awkward but it's not like he's cheating on you or trying to replace you with them.
Now if he ever gets a sex doll or a fleshlight, RUN.
Anime is sexual, i have a friend who watched a lot of Anime and Manga and she is always drewling over their boobs lol he plays the games too so... it's just a thing, some guys are into that.
... As an anime fan, I find that perfectly normal. He's a nerd. Big whoop.
I applaud you.
You're awesome ^_^
Hi4 anime bros
I mean I collect anime figures 2 but its kinda different to collect the ones that u can take the panties off of u know?
Guess that means I should start dressing my Sasuke figure
hahahha omg
You should speak to him about it and tell him how uncomfortable and sexualized the figures he bought are. Most Anime and Comic books are overly sexualized especially towards women that they make me uncomfortable.
thankyou but this is kind of a last resort thing I've tried discussing the subject multiple time to only leave with more questions and no answers
As of now this last resort seems to be your only option.
So, he's an anime freak huh? What does he watch? Angel beat or Beelzebub? Oh, I'm sorry.. They ain't gross right? I bet he loves One Piece (and bosomy girls). But don't worry, he's only attracted to the perfection of their shape. He loves you.
Its pretty weird.. but why do these dolls bother you immensely?
I say its ok cause they are just figures (dolls) but try to figure why it bothers you... if there is something bothering you then there I something missing in the relationship...
Whether or not the figures are a substitute for you, it's disrespectful for him to do something if it clearly bothers you.
Be glad he doesn't have a life sized anise doll to (ahem) with.
He does -.-'
Shot down...
Yikes.
He defintly sounds obsessed with vicarious sexuality... can you get him to see a counselor, someone objective?
Why should he have to change? He is not cheating on her and is just another hobby..
a little odd if you ask me
I get its fun seeing naked women but to have like figures of them in doll form is surely a little creepy to me
Not having owned them myself I can not speak for all. But from a guy's perspective they are more like a fantasy type thing. I would say sexual eye candy.
People are into what they're into. No changing it. Just realize your real and they are fake.